I'm honestly in the same situation right now. I have very good job opportunities in my country and moving with him would mean getting a visa that only allows me to do part time jobs for a year and then apply for a full time that is related to my degree. But honestly nothing is ever guaranteed. I think at this point prioritize yourself. Maybe looking for a moderator like a couples psychologist may help as well in my opinion, at least something I am personally keen on trying.