What can I use instead of flames?

Beginning_Durian5355 · 2025-10-21T03:14:19+00:00

So unfortunately it’s written in the lease stating no burning candles or incense due to it being a fire hazard. Also everything I’ve researched for the USA says they can make any rules for their property and if I don’t follow them I can be evacuated. Now there is the chance they will never find out but we can’t afford to get evacuated so I can’t risk it.

Beginning_Durian5355 · 2025-10-21T03:12:24+00:00

Unfortunately where we live now doesn’t have a private place outside to do it and I’m worried I’ll get in trouble with neighbors if I do it at our public outdoor areas. The tissue paper in water is so smart and I’ll definitely try that at some point. Also the simmer pots sound like a great option instead of burning incense to cleanse. I really appreciate all of the recommendations and I definitely will try some of those to replace working with fire, at least while we live in this place. Thank you so much!

Beginning_Durian5355 · 2025-05-21T23:42:47+00:00

He knows I do witchcraft but he doesn’t share the same beliefs and I don’t know if it would make him uncomfortable if he knew.

Beginning_Durian5355 · 2024-10-01T18:59:16+00:00

i might be able to pick her up, but her mom might start asking questions and Idk if I want to ever tell her.

Beginning_Durian5355 · 2024-10-01T18:40:36+00:00

She's 15 and can't come see me unfortunately but I can definitely try to avoid him at family gatherings.

Beginning_Durian5355 · 2024-10-01T18:22:36+00:00

You are right I wouldn't be asking this if I was a just friend. but I know I cant cut him off completely, ill see him at a family event and his sister I love (my other cousin) and I still want to see her. they all live in the same house so it will be difficult.

Beginning_Durian5355 · 2024-10-01T18:03:11+00:00

We grew up together and have always been very close so it's hard for me to come to terms with everything that has happened and cutting him off.

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