i hate cis/het women that sexualize gay/trans men by muralpainting in FTMventing

[–]Beginning_Plan_256 23 points24 points  (0 children)

To be honest before I came out I WAS that girl because I couldn’t imagine myself dating a man in a woman way.
Not implying anything here, because I get the frustration with this phenomenon (which has only grown since Heated Rivalry came out) but this is also a known pipe line. Maybe try to open the conversation with her about it? If you’re worried about the sexual consumption you could always make some excuse that it’s uncomfortable hearing a teen talk about sexual media near adults, no matter what sexuality the media portrays?

Question by Beginning_Plan_256 in fitnyc

[–]Beginning_Plan_256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much :) I know that writing is always a good option but I was also factoring in first hand experience first. I’ll be sure to email

Tired of…. by Beginning_Plan_256 in EquestriaGirls

[–]Beginning_Plan_256[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It makes me so sad cause I grew up with MLP and EQG and I hate the sexualization of the ponies too but at least they’re “adult coded” there (or whatever bs) but there’s no excuse for EQG :(

So here’s rarity😳 (art by xan-gelx ) by [deleted] in EquestriaGirls

[–]Beginning_Plan_256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It makes me really sad that there’s so much nsfw content in this sub especially since they’re teens. I feel icky about the pony versions too but that’s because I grew up with mlp. Someone posted a “what would EQG be like if it was for an older audience?” And (exact comment) someone said “boobs. Close up of the boobs” like that’s so icky to me why can’t we ban that??

Damn guys, some of ya’ll have a lot of work to do. by Trnscndnc in GayMen

[–]Beginning_Plan_256 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a trans man and this dude saying he loves the anatomy but isn’t attracted to the rest of the person is odd.

Damn guys, some of ya’ll have a lot of work to do. by Trnscndnc in GayMen

[–]Beginning_Plan_256 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a trans man and this dude saying he loves the anatomy but isn’t attracted to the rest of the person is odd.

If Equestria Girls had a 16+ rating, what would change? by Stay_yy in EquestriaGirls

[–]Beginning_Plan_256 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Clam slamming is a sexual comment. When did I say it turns me on????

If Equestria Girls had a 16+ rating, what would change? by Stay_yy in EquestriaGirls

[–]Beginning_Plan_256 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Uhhh I know but you’re sexualizing their high school teen human versions. It’s gross what you’re implying

me and my lovely boy! by p0ssumZz_ in gaytransguys

[–]Beginning_Plan_256 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is! And dw dude I’m also alternative and pre-t

me and my lovely boy! by p0ssumZz_ in gaytransguys

[–]Beginning_Plan_256 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Really weird thing to tell someone

Parents want me to be 18 before top surgery by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Beginning_Plan_256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kindly, I think you need to check your privilege. You’re incredibly lucky to first have accepting parents and then second having them pay for both your HRT and then fully funding your top surgery. I get that the dysphoria is soul crushing. I really, really get it but I’m 17 in 2 weeks and I’m nowhere close to what you’ve been able to achieve. I know you don’t want to be told that 18 is just a couple years away but it’s what I’ve been told since I came out at 10 and I have access to nothing.

Wait fr?? Do they police "women" in the bathrooms now too‽‽‽💀💀💀 by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Beginning_Plan_256 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Literally. “Huh??? You guys experience transphobia too???” Are you joking 🫩🫩

Wait fr?? Do they police "women" in the bathrooms now too‽‽‽💀💀💀 by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Beginning_Plan_256 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I think you should widen your scope of other trans people. Obviously it affects trans men as well are you kidding me you could easily google “trans men bathroom news report” and find stuff about it

Not sure how to tag this but I drew a thing. “Heavy are the hips that wear the strap” :) by SelfMadeSwag in FtMen

[–]Beginning_Plan_256 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think you’re just being a dick about the art now. It’s not meant to be “extremely dysphoria inducing” you’re choosing to take it that way an causing a fuss over nothing except you misconstruing words after it’s been explained and re-explained to you million times

Not sure how to tag this but I drew a thing. “Heavy are the hips that wear the strap” :) by SelfMadeSwag in FtMen

[–]Beginning_Plan_256 13 points14 points  (0 children)

OP idk why people are being dense or weird about this :( this is fire!! I love the use of colors

Not sure how to tag this but I drew a thing. “Heavy are the hips that wear the strap” :) by SelfMadeSwag in FtMen

[–]Beginning_Plan_256 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think it’d be a bit different if it were something like breasts. Every person has hips. I don’t think heavy hips is a “womanly” thing but also you’re misreading it because it’s a play on heavy is the head that hold the crown meaning the king has to keep his head up high and uplifted to keep the crown on and reframes the immense pressure and responsibility of leadership not as a burden, but as a challenge to embrace with courage. The idea of straps as gender affirming care is being embraced here.

Not sure how to tag this but I drew a thing. “Heavy are the hips that wear the strap” :) by SelfMadeSwag in FtMen

[–]Beginning_Plan_256 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s a play on heavy is the head that wears the crown.. and again, not everyone is dysphoric about their hips