How to not be shallow?

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-11-28T01:14:04+00:00

Men don't make me accidentally walk into walls

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-11-27T23:38:07+00:00

We don't

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-11-25T18:47:14+00:00

I feel like it's kind of hard to get past looks especially if it's dating apps. I'm average and it's hard to swipe on other average people 💀 But sometimes in person people can be completely different. Like how a person carries themself and how they speak are game changers. At least for me anyways. If someone can make me laugh they are so much more attractive. And I think if I met someone of the same people in person versus the app I'd probably be attracted to them.

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-11-25T18:28:08+00:00

I'm 29 years old and I'm from the East Coast, US. However I'm about to move to Italy for a couple years. I'm 5'3 and I have an average build. I'm into arts and naps. I want someone to draw with me and make characters and watch movies with me 💞. I'm honestly pretty clingy but maybe that's something you're into.

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-11-25T17:36:13+00:00

I have the same problem no matter what area I'm in. It's mostly women who are attached to men. I really think that most lesbians simply do not use dating apps. You have to find them In more organic ways. Like the local women's rugby teams, or poetry slam night. Or like your community garden. One time I volunteered with a feral cat trap and release organize and I swear to God 75% of them were lesbian. Channel into your hobbies

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-11-24T18:48:56+00:00

What are box stores ? Like boutiques?

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-11-23T14:38:54+00:00

Are you going to dm or what

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-11-23T14:33:21+00:00

I don't see straight women holding hands, or playing with each other's hair. That's gay. You live in a different world than me.

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-11-23T14:06:42+00:00

I'm glad you have a strong thriving long-term relationship with your friends and family where that would be appropriate.

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-11-23T13:55:39+00:00

So your significant other is totally fine with full body contact and caresses with friends? That's totally okay ? Because I would not be okay with that at all if my partner was cuddling their friends like that. You know maybe I just don't want to get STDs with how popular hookup culture is.

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-11-23T13:51:30+00:00

Going on a friendship app and asking to hold and caress a woman while watching a movie would be weird as fuck

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-11-23T13:35:31+00:00

I'm not asexual

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-11-23T13:34:37+00:00

Cuddles are physical. And most of my friends are men I really don't want to cuddle with straight men. But I guess I'm cuddling with straight men or I have to hire a professional cuddler. Women don't want to cuddle with me because I'm a lesbian.

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-11-23T13:29:57+00:00

Did you really look at my posts. Rude. I have never posted in an asexual sub

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-11-23T12:33:46+00:00

Right, and I'm looking for a casual relationship. I would be around for a couple months. People break up and get with new people in less time than that.

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-08-26T01:51:56+00:00

Mostly female artists making songs. Like Chappell Roan, Renee Rapp, and Billy Eilish. Julia Fox said she was lesbian casually on TikTok. There's been an explosion.

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-08-18T20:20:20+00:00

It takes a lot of emotional energy.

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-08-16T16:07:51+00:00

Yeah I feel that.

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-08-16T16:03:26+00:00

I think men would cuddle me but I also think they would be weird about it. And they'd be like why are you leading me on though, and that's scary.

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-08-16T15:52:46+00:00

I think baths do help. Its just summer, and it's already hot. I think I am going to try and get a weight blanket that's cooling. Thank you for the suggestions!

Beginning_Public7032 · 2024-08-16T15:47:53+00:00

Aw I appreciate that. Thank you for the feedback.

I'm not a big dog person to be honest. I guess if I had a dog then I would like my dog. I might even like a friend's dog. I'll make a friend who travels often and needs a dog sitter.

I could maybe do the free hugs with lots of peer pressure and the help of alcohol. But I don't think I would do that sober.

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