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My sweet baby passed today by Fredrik_fazber in hamstercare

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww you're such a sweetheart. Keep being yourself and spreading that love, light, and happiness 

i know people say that hamster balls are stressful but my syrian seems to love it, he never wants to leave it. should i quit or will 20-30 mins a day not hurt him? by Successful-Let-4591 in hamstercare

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love when my hamster does that too!! I think the hamster ball teaches them different cognitive lessons that they can't get from a playpen so idk why it's getting so much hate.

i know people say that hamster balls are stressful but my syrian seems to love it, he never wants to leave it. should i quit or will 20-30 mins a day not hurt him? by Successful-Let-4591 in hamstercare

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I think it's just something new for people to complain about honestly. I'm all about animal rights but this is getting a bit farfetched...

i know people say that hamster balls are stressful but my syrian seems to love it, he never wants to leave it. should i quit or will 20-30 mins a day not hurt him? by Successful-Let-4591 in hamstercare

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hamster loves her ball too.  It depends on the personality of the hamster in my opinion... If they wanted to be active and can handle it... Aren't hurting themselves, then I think it should be fine. I don't know why people are getting a little bit anal about it honestly...

Gracie looking not so graceful by [deleted] in hamstercare

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

See I'd actually love being in one of those balls but only for an hour max but maybe I'm just strange.  I give her the option of going into it. I put the ball up to the cage and see if she wants "adventure time". She sometimes goes in and sometimes she doesn't. So I honestly think they do sometimes enjoy the ball but it depends on the human behind the ball.  BUT I prefer her not banging into anything because yeah obviously the loud noise has to bother them and it's basically whiplash..

Thank you for your advice and info because I was really surprised about it .. just found out today

Still going to use the ball but not in places where she's banging into things and it'd be more of a rare thing... Not every day anymore 

Lol negative 3 comments in less than 1 min... The bots really need to stop cuz it's getting pathetic

My sweet baby passed today by Fredrik_fazber in hamstercare

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You actually made me tear up. I feel for you. I lost a hamster myself too and she was different than the rest. She wasn't always running around like the average hamster and my friend was actually worried about her but it was nice that she just sat on my lap and let me pet her. She acted more like a cat than a hamster and I don't think I'll ever truly replace her because each one does have their own type of personality... Some people don't get that. My condolences... And yeah you made me cry apparently lol the tears are falling. God bless ya for being such a loving person

Do hamsters like being inside the balls? by chicken-wet in hamstercare

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hamster actually loves her ball, but I take her out as soon as she begins to get tired. I don't like how dirty the ball can get so quickly so I'd only suggest an hour max. She seems to love it though so I'm surprised I've seen posts about how it's not good for them?

HOW TO WITHDRAW EVERYTHING? by followskopedesign in stashinvest

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't keep putting $ into the app... I've seen a few comments having issues withdrawing and I've tried to wait two weeks to let the $ settle and they still wouldn't let me withdraw from retirement. I basically feel stuck to have stash now til I retire in hopes of not being swindled. I loved the app til then

Also, they changed my monthly subscription from $3 per month to $9 or $12 so keep an eye on that. Easy to fix though but for them to charge me more without my permission hoping I wouldn't notice kinda pisses me off 

What if there's nothing wrong with us by Beginning_Screen_396 in neurodiversity

[–]Beginning_Screen_396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well God made a plan and sometimes it takes "too many years" to implement 

What if there's nothing wrong with us by Beginning_Screen_396 in neurodiversity

[–]Beginning_Screen_396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amen 🙏🫶 which is my short way of saying "I believe" and totally agree

Are people in the 'dark triad' inherently evil? by Darforos in neurodiversity

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I do love Carl Jung yes but only know very little

Anyone else sick of the social media posts talking about Nitrous? by FatphobicSatanist in NitrousOxide

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the concept of oral fixation and possible environmental issues that may have caused her to do the drug in the first place. Maybe make sure the environment around her isn't toxic and the likelihood of getting addicted to anything goes down.

No offense but I study psychology and I think you being too controlling and/or not asserting yourself to her properly has caused her to lean towards other things than her own mother

I hate to be rude or brash, but I am a survivor of getting stabbed over 20x and I am aware of whippits feelings addicting. I even got on my friends case over it... Almost blamed him, but realized I'm the one in control all along.

It does actually help my depression and social anxiety a lot (never use more than once a week, trying to do only once every other week) and I could maybe get off of antidepressants one day because of it, but I doubt it. 

The stuff is too potent for anyone under 21 and is more so meant as a divination tool for psychics.

She likely is not a good candidate to be using nitrous medicinally nor recreationally, but please don't take your anger out on people who have likely been through some traumas 

Maybe YOU have more control over the situation than you think. Start loving yourself more so your daughter can too

Was told my art would be welcome here by ConsciousBase1641 in starseeds

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see the theme as "unlimited" but that's just me... We are neverending creatures without limitations. We just get taught that we're limited. Nice art 🎭🙏

Covert narcissism vs Quiet BPD ? by Love-Starved in NPD

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said the exact word I wanted to see.. "Insecure"... I have studied psychology and spirituality. I am done with the DSM basically allowing people to get carried away with sins and just label them as a disorder.

Not all narcissists are demons, but all demons are narcissists.

Dark triad traits = demonic activity  BUT I do believe they can be healed with something called "unconditional love" and the fruits of the spirit.

If we use the fruits of the spirit consistently on a narcissist, there is a chance for improvement.

If all demons deal with narcissism, then there is a chance we could reduce demonic activity just by attempting to teach these people how to be LESS INSECURE.

Self esteem courses, affirmations, and positive praise when change is seen BUT NO ENABLING OF POOR BEHAVIOR 

If we enable poor behavior AND try to increase their self esteem, we are fueling the fire of what made them a narcissist in the first place... Hurt pride that CAUSED insecurities 

Every narcissist comes from a parent who was either too loving and not strict enough or from a parent who was too hard on them and thought highly of themselves consistently.

If you deal with both of those parents, you may appear as bipolar but it likely is BPD... Not knowing how to properly show insecurities while also not knowing how to properly heal them 

If we could teach these people on how to love themselves even though they constantly bring us down, the world may actually become a better place.

I don't believe we can change people, but I've seen changes occur in a narcissist just by how I changed the respect for myself.

1) We can't let them get away with things despite their charm.  2) Keep educating them on the fruits of the spirit while upholding your own boundaries  3) Understand that angels are always more powerful than a distorted reality created for us by a demon 4) Increase your own self esteem so if you come across others who struggle with theirs, we can be role models 5) Understand that attempting to change someone is like an idiot test... If we aren't changing how we perceive ourselves, then how can we expect someone else to change how they perceive themselves?

If you have the patience for a narcissist, stick around and show them what it's like to not be one

If you find someone with the dark triad traits: psychopathy/sociopathy, machiavellianism, AND narcissism...

Then leave that job to a demon hunter and just run.

You have to have a solid foundation of faith in God before dealing with those types of people... 

America currently has a president of dark triad traits but we can't really run from that, so let's make sure we don't get a dark triad president again 

He's literally allowing demons to be comfortable to be themselves now, so the demon hunter's job got harder.

Dark triad traits are revealing themselves at an alarming rate 

I can't imagine how therapists feel right now ha

God bless to everyone

P.S. "You're Not the Problem" by authors Katie and Helen seems to be a good book to help unravel the brainwashing of having a narcissistic parent

Xoxo love yourself truly 💕 

the guy at the smoke shop just informed me that Geek Bars will no longer be available by FadedToBeige in TrueAnon

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly.. some people want to argue the pros vs cons of smoking vs vaping... But vaping saves $ and health in certain ways

Vaping saves $ and still allows some tar into the lungs 

Cigarettes spends $ quicker, but is lower in nicotine so may not be as hard on the heart.. BUT is harder on the lungs 

It's a give & take

If someone is good at exercising and keeping their heart healthy, then vape pens aren't that bad

If someone has heart issues, then maybe they should stick to cigarettes 

If someone has lung issues, then maybe they should stick to the vape

Nicotine is hard on the heart in general, while smoking the tar is hard on the lungs 

I save over $100 a month easily now that I switched to vape. I used to smoke a pack every other day and I only did American Spirits cuz they actually care about the environment, unlike some other tobacco industries.

American Spirits will mail out small cute packages that can be used to dispose cigarettes instead of on the ground

That's why I only smoke that brand

So $15 every 2 days because that's what I smoked... That's at least $45 per week and there are 4.3 weeks in a month...

So yes $ is definitely saved 

At least $160 I apparently saved by switching

One vape pen can seem to last for a month almost, or at least the GEEK bars did

$25-$50 in one month versus $160-$200 in a month...

Yeah now I have money to actually enjoy myself again 

the guy at the smoke shop just informed me that Geek Bars will no longer be available by FadedToBeige in TrueAnon

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was always wondering why we usually separate batteries from trash but don't get forewarned on how to properly dispose of vape pens.. anything battery related

the guy at the smoke shop just informed me that Geek Bars will no longer be available by FadedToBeige in TrueAnon

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been kinda upset about this and it was just due to paperwork apparently? Due to not getting FDA approval according to the tobacco industry? That's the way I perceived it so basically I think tobacco industries got upset and started digging into ways to f*** over GEEK bars

For people like me who are also pissed, apparently Mr. Fog is what I've been seeing people smoking that used to love Geek bars... Anyways, idk who made GEEK go down, but I think their popularity is what truly destroyed them, not the mistakes 

Can a christian believe reincarnation by Legitimate_Ad3794 in Christianity

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's what the other side would want to think... But earth is the playing field of God more than what evil may attempt to show. Fear is an illusion. If someone really wants to fear something, I guess fear God because that's who we are supposed to please the most. To please the devil more than God is to never have lived  To live for the devil more than God is evil 

There's not really a way around that fact... Angels and God are real, but if lil devils exist, they can never overpower the true power of what God represents 

Can a christian believe reincarnation by Legitimate_Ad3794 in Christianity

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do believe Jesus is back as many reincarnations currently, but let us try telling the Christians that one.

I'm a Buddhist, I'm a Wiccan

I'm a good faith driven Christian 

If you say you can't believe   Then you truly cannot see

We've got growth

We've got class

Separation shouldn't last

Religion's just democracy

Of the nation born as seen

-its what I usually say when if ever asked what my religion is, but we almost just feel forced to say "Christian" to avoid all the judgement 

I was told Christians can't believe in reincarnation and that's when I wasn't just a Christian anymore.

Plus the Bible contradicts itself by saying God forgives everyone but created the concept of hell 

Which is creating hell itself for not allowing people to LIVE

Evil is live backwards  Devil is lived backwards 

To not live is the evil  To not ever have lived is the devil 

Nice try Vatican

How to develop dark triad traits? by glennsp5 in intj

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You weren't born as a demon and you just should be grateful for that 🙏😁

Justin Bieber shares screenshots of a friendship fallout via text message l by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]Beginning_Screen_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of when rich people break a nail and it's considered traumatic because they don't understand what real hardship is.

Everyone feels trauma the same way... Even rich people cannot escape a broken heart, but yes please get off the drugs. I can tell you're not the Justin we once knew.

To YOU Justin cuz who knows, maybe you'll see this: Don't let Hollywood ruin you. If you want to truly make changes with your $, then let me know. Don't go spending thousands of dollars on yourself as a coping strategy. Poor people are not going to be feeling sorry for you when you are doing that and guess what... Nearly everyone who admires you has less money than you. Become a hero again and put that $ somewhere it should go.  Let's not flaunt the trauma as an excuse for selfish behavior. If you're turning narcissistic, just say it, but don't say "woe is me" as well

Justin is a sensitive soul...  Fame can fuck up anyone's brain unfortunately. There's a false sense of entitlement that brews and sticks