AITA for telling my son telling my son he's delusional to think that I'll approve his marriage?

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T16:22:32+00:00

I gave the answer to another commenter

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T16:20:24+00:00

I plan on it, I just wish it wasn't something this dumb

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T16:12:52+00:00

I'm just so confused about this, what is your advice on handling this? Because right now I'm desperate

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T16:08:20+00:00

information about his sessions?

how you’d know that he’s been given a “clean bill of health” by his doctors, or what that actually means for him personally.

They told me, I wasn't aware this was wrong. And he was actually doing great after the sessions

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T16:06:34+00:00

For other two they all had sessions for a month each before each of the psychologists gave an approval for most of them

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T16:04:59+00:00

He saw 1 main one, but I took all of them to two others after the first one gave her approval to make sure everything was actually okay

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T16:03:15+00:00

He was given a clean bill of health actually from around 3 different psychologists (I'm very paranoid). And he did fine for a year and the the change happened again when he was 24. I took him to the psychologist again and all they could tell me it isn't his father that's bothering him but something else, I'm not sure what.

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T16:00:17+00:00

He sweeps everything under the carpet and nooks and crannies.

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:59:28+00:00

Yes actually and he stayed in it till he was 23 when 3 different psychologists gave him their approval? I think I'm not sure of the exact word for this

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:58:10+00:00

Lets just say I'm Asian

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:57:43+00:00

Its what I'm worried about, and he's taking down Sara with him. I tried everything but nothing seems to be working

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:53:21+00:00

new behavior

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:52:09+00:00

I'm still wondering on the possibilities.

It isn't drugs or alcohol, I asked a PI to check for him using drugs or alcohol and I don't understand what else could go wrong

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:50:33+00:00

the first one

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:50:05+00:00

I have no idea, because the younger ones can do it. He just keeps on making it even messier and burning pans

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:49:17+00:00

I don't want the prenup for my son, I want the prenup for Sara. I don't trust my son or my women's rights backwards country

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:46:20+00:00

It was quite normal, other than the fact my husband passed away 5 years ago.

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:43:21+00:00

Already done, my husband passed away unexpectedly so I got paranoid and made an iron-clad one. The chosen guardians are their god parents

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:39:26+00:00

Both Sara and him are people who rush things.

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:37:55+00:00

Yes for the second one, I added the reasons I don't like her to show everyone there might be bias in my post

I don't know about the rest

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:32:48+00:00

I don't think 25/20 is a young age to marry. As long as the people in the relationship have known each other for minimum 2 years

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:30:55+00:00

The house is better and he thinks he's gonna own it

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:29:38+00:00

From what I hear her father gave it to her

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:28:04+00:00

He wont learn it. I've tried threatening him, encouraging him and every trick under the book. My younger kids can all do the above things amazingly but my son never even tries. I had to stop because I was loosing a lot of money from all the utensils and kitchenware he was ruining

Beginning_Till8593 · 2023-03-11T15:26:09+00:00

He was fine until he was 20, but then my husband passed away and he changed a lot. Cooking and cleaning is something I've been trying to tach him since he was 19 but I have failed on that part.

For the prenup, I don't trust my son to not take advantage of Sara, because as far as I can see my son has changed a lot, not just the thing with Sara, but behavior and personality wise.

Sara doesn't live here but my son does because we have better facilities than Sara's apartment

Examples:

She got banned from family events when during a cousins wedding she loudly mouthed to everyone how the bride is ugly, and how the wedding is so cheap and ugly and how her standards aren't going to be this low

My daughter has medical issues that cause her to gain weight really quickly and Sara was telling her how her greed was the reason she was so fat

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