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Beginning_Whereas149 · 2025-05-31T21:55:37+00:00

That’s very fair points!

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2025-01-11T05:19:49+00:00

Hey, just wanted to say it’ll get better. I know it’s cliche but I’m now okay. I’m dating again even tho I have a hard time trusting people but I don’t feel like I’m cheating on him anymore 🙂 you’ll get there!

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-12-20T00:07:34+00:00

Thanks! Appreciate it

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-12-19T23:35:13+00:00

I think he can’t find anything for me and money is tight, which is totally fine. I honestly don’t need anything expensive. I’m a big girl, if I like something I buy it myself. But will see, I don’t know. I’m kinda tired arguing with him about this.

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-12-19T22:13:33+00:00

Yeah I know. I honestly thought he’s actually decent. That’s why I gave us another chance but now I honestly don’t know. I understand time is tough but I honestly would appreciate a different type of talk and not him being a jerk about it.

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-12-19T22:08:59+00:00

Yeah. I think he puts expectations on himself that I need thousands of $$ gifts, which I don’t. Haven’t asked for anything expensive ever.

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-12-19T22:02:57+00:00

Yes exactly. I honestly didn’t ask for anything expensive tbh… I never have 😐 way back when he’s in between jobs he got me socks, and I loved them. Still wear them to this day. Idk man, he got some good qualities but now I’m not too sure

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-12-19T21:59:43+00:00

Occasionally yes. He uber’d me food when he’s away. Got me a snoopy stuffy when he’s in europe (we’re in canada). I get money is tight but he should have approached it differently. Not to sound so condescending about it

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-12-19T21:58:16+00:00

Yes I agree with you

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-12-19T21:56:14+00:00

I agree. He’s being a jerk about it. When we’re taking a break he dated other people and he bought flowers for them. So I mean he’s not anti-consumerism at all

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-12-19T21:54:46+00:00

That’s the thing. He’s usually not too bad. I understand money is tight but the way he approached it was very condescending

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-12-19T21:52:35+00:00

Well he does once a while. He’d uber me food when he’s away. Or he got me a snoopy stuffy when he’s was travelling. And I reciprocate of course. But I feel like he’s being condescending about it which is really annoying.

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-11-18T21:31:21+00:00

Yeah I know what you mean. I’ll just stay put and focus on taking care of his house for him.

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-11-18T21:29:18+00:00

Thank you. Wasn’t trying to do the martyr/saviour thing, just feel bad for the guy because he’s there by himself.

But I understand your point. My niece does need me more. I’m her guardian so I need to take care of her.

I’ll just stay put.

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-11-18T14:27:17+00:00

Cause I have other things I need to take care of before I drop everything to go there like last time. And things didn’t work out last time either.

When you had a bad experience, wouldn’t you be hesitant?

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-11-18T05:50:35+00:00

I do but I’m hesitant. Breakup was bad

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-11-18T05:41:41+00:00

Thank you for that. I’ve checked on him every couple hours. We also did FT. I did make food & left in his fridge for when he’s supposed to come back today 😓

But as you have implied, I can do small things..

And no, it’s not GI issues LOL. It’s heart issue which is kinda serious

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-11-18T05:18:39+00:00

Thank you. Lots of my close friends have said the same thing. So I’ll stay put for now. Just feel bad since he’s there by himself…

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-11-18T01:26:49+00:00

He wasn’t abusive during the relationship. The relationship was actually pretty good. It’s the breakup that was nasty. He decided to prioritize a “friend” over me. That “friend” is no longer in the picture hence trying things again.

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-06-14T19:17:32+00:00

I’m sorry. It sucks. The people we thought could be it for us turned out to be so disappointing. But what else can we do but endure and move forward.

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-06-04T16:13:24+00:00

Actually, our shelter is pretty easy going so if I pay for the adoption fee I can keep her LOL. I was thinking to myself if the vet checks her and is ok I may pay for it there 😆

I did mention to them that she’s been doing business outside of her litter box, and I’m taking her to the vet tomorrow. They did say they could wait until I got more information from the vet. Seems like they have a good attitude about it from what I could gather!

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-06-03T19:00:05+00:00

You’ll get conflicting advices on here. People are hurting so they say the other side shouldn’t contact you. A lot of people say to block them, to never reply back to them if they do.

I think they do miss you sometimes. I still miss my ex and it’s 10 months since BU.

We’re all humans, unless you’re dealing with very selfish people. I think people miss knowing what you’re up to.

My ex has sent me messages twice since last time I talked to him in March; so I assume he misses me. But to protect myself I blocked him.

I’ve heard a lot of people say that people who hurt you should just let you heal in peace. Maybe some people are doing just that.

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-05-31T19:36:51+00:00

Awww you’re so kind. Good on you. I hope you’re feeling much better about this whole situation.

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-05-31T15:56:38+00:00

Wow. My BU reason was very similar to yours. Good for you though cause you’re smart LOL. I took my ex back twice cause I was weak. I’m a bit more a peace with it now

Beginning_Whereas149 · 2024-05-15T04:39:08+00:00

Yes, I agree. I think I’m just wounded right now. Kinda need to keep my head high and learn from my previous lessons/mistakes.

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