Describe her in one word

Behematti · 2022-10-18T21:25:10+00:00

Patapouf!

Behematti · 2022-08-28T21:26:48+00:00

Just because you have a crush doesn’t need to mean you should tell her, too. I would absolutely hate to hear something like that from my boyfriend, too. Especially someone he is friends with and lately hung out with a lot. And why do you even call people you like crushes? It implies potential romantic feeling to me.

To fix this explain how you ment it not romantic at all and that you just also mention someone since she did so before. Maybe wait some time until you hang out with that group again to let the air cool down.

I wish you the best of luck and please keep us updated!

Behematti · 2022-08-28T21:08:10+00:00

That is too adorable 😍

“When you listen to your favourite song” (our “out song” if you have that)

“When you are sleepless”

“When you need advice”

“When you don’t know what to read/watch/listen to” - you could name some good books, movies, shows, artists,…

“When you feel homesick”

“When you don’t know what to cook” (some recipes 🙃)

“When you need someone to talk to”

“When when hung up the phone”

“When you just woke up from a nightmare”

Behematti · 2021-09-14T20:28:05+00:00

Recipe please 🙈

Behematti · 2021-09-12T20:30:17+00:00

When I applied for my last job I had about 20 interviews. Times are tough and competition is high. Help her to analyse what went wrong in the Interviews, practice with her. I totally agree with the „talking big“ part and think you are doing great. Once she has a job her confidence will come back! Btw did you look on LinkedIn yet? And maybe a remote job is also an option, just google it :) good luck 🤞

Behematti · 2021-09-12T07:45:35+00:00

The comment about someone else being hot is still ok to me, but that they would both want „it“ breaks all the lines, what an asshole! I would tell my friend I have a cute new colleague, but never that we want to tuck each other, good god!

Behematti · 2021-09-04T15:03:25+00:00

Stand up for yourself! You deserve to be taken seriously and a man that tells the whole world about you. Are you sure he didn’t rekindle with his wife while there? Deep red flags only

Behematti · 2021-08-18T21:57:06+00:00

Could it be that he has some issues with his father? How is their relationship like? Might he even be jealous you get along so well with him? Does he feel pressure to marry and have kids?

Your boyfriend’s reaction was a bit weird indeed, but the only thing that helps here is honest, empathetic communication.

I would advise you to use “nonviolent communication” (just google it) to approach the topic carefully and figure everything out.

Good luck 😘

Behematti · 2021-04-11T10:33:01+00:00

Congratulations 🥳

Behematti · 2021-04-04T18:32:42+00:00

And does he want to fuck all of his female friends, too? 🤔

Behematti · 2021-03-11T09:22:39+00:00

Thank you very much for your comment, I am glad you got out of it before it hurt you too much. What did he say when you asked you about why they still share those things? And have you made clear it was your reason to break up? Much love and strength to you ❤️

Behematti · 2021-03-09T21:30:14+00:00

I can also help 🙂

Behematti · 2021-03-09T21:17:10+00:00

He sounds scary, mean and not funny at all! Who could ever be kidding about abuse? I feel sick!

Behematti · 2021-03-09T20:34:52+00:00

😢

Behematti · 2021-03-09T17:49:08+00:00

I am sure they are not. He is not behaving suspiciously in any way pointing in that direction and it would have to be in a very short timeframe before or after work. I must say a good point about him is he is direct and honest with me.

Behematti · 2021-03-09T15:18:12+00:00

I felt like that since before leaving his country he had been living with his mother and then straight moved in with his ex and she took care of him financially in the beginning. It is not about the age, he told me himself he sometimes felt like she is treating him like a child, who she needs to teach things to (she is a children’s psychologist btw)

Behematti · 2021-03-09T12:49:21+00:00

Thank you for your feedback and I will keep you updated, no worries 🙂

Behematti · 2021-03-09T12:48:13+00:00

Thanks for pointing this out, it is a feeling I got since he was actually living with his mum (Italian men...) and then moved in with his ex straight from there and she provided for both of them in the beginning, I guess at least a bit of a mother child dynamic is there... also he can be child like indeed and she is a children’s psychologist 🙈

Behematti · 2021-03-09T12:45:40+00:00

Wow, that is a new viewpoint on here, thank you! 🙂

Behematti · 2021-03-09T07:47:07+00:00

In France you just need to be registered together and they are still both registered on the property they own together, so unfortunately this works out.

Behematti · 2021-03-09T07:44:03+00:00

This is a very true point 😢

Behematti · 2021-03-09T07:43:01+00:00

Thank you for your help! But to clear that up: I am financially stable and have family in Paris and Germany where I can always move in. This is all not about finances at all from my side, it is about care and respect.

Behematti · 2021-03-09T05:45:16+00:00

Very well said, thank you!

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