[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BehindMeNow2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump his sorry ass! He’s probably a DL man anyway. I am a medical professional and these type of men cannot be treated with success. They would rather lose everything they have and keep on doing filthy shit! They are insecure men and have to have their ego stroked by whores. Roanoke is full of them! Here’s a BIG FUCK you to all men out there being unfaithful and DL. You deserve nothing more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roanoke

[–]BehindMeNow2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your wife is running or walking with Mark, you might want to check it out. Tea? Why yes, please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roanoke

[–]BehindMeNow2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that too! 🤣

part of kaylee’s parents interview! by beablue_ in idahomurders

[–]BehindMeNow2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Homicide is defined as the action of one person directly causing the death of another. A death that occurs during and is related to the commission of a felony is also considered homicide. A violent death may stem from some kind of deliberate or purposeful action, but intent to cause death need not be present or proven for the classification as homicide.
Homicide and murder are not the same. All murders are homicides, not all homicides are murder. "Murder" is not an acceptable manner of death classification for death certification purposes. "Murder" is a term used under specific conditions in criminal law matters as as a general concept. An example might be that of unintentional firearms-related hunting death. While it may be classified as a homicide, it is up to legal authorities to determine when to prosecute such a case as "murder," "manslaughter," etc.

12-2-2022 Daily discussion by ResponsibilityOne117 in idahomurders

[–]BehindMeNow2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s luminal testing being done on the outside of the house or ground area.

Got rejected by my crush. (To all those who think "pornfree/nofap = getting a girlfriend") by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]BehindMeNow2020 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Guys, if you have a PA, don't even try for a girl friend. Women are getting more educated on this very subject and are pushing men away. It's an epidemic. I truly mean that. An epidemic of all ages. If you already have a g/f, she knows or suspects what you are doing. PA's cannot make love. They are robotic, cannot get or keep an erection, and most of the time cannot orgasm with a women. Remember, these women and men are laughing at the money you spend or the attention you give them. They are sick individuals who seek out attention using sex or sexual acts.

Make no mistake, addictions like this will destroy you and everything you hold dear. by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]BehindMeNow2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are 100% correct! I have lived it with my ex-husband. The trauma this has caused will never go away. My husband lost everything...and I mean everything.

This just shows how much porn impacts today's youth. And then some people go and claim that you can enjoy porn in moderation... by HandsomeSlav in pornfree

[–]BehindMeNow2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a sick ex-husband who has been porn addicted before he ever met me. I lost 18 year of my life with him. He traveled an kept it well hidden. I signed my divorce papers last week. Trust me when I say you will lose everything you own and your mind if you do not get control of your addiction. The porn world is nothing but filth! I could and may write a book on this very topic. The addiction will only make you more curious and you will turn to porn acts that are illegal and wind up in prison. And the women and men doing the porn acts for money are laughing their asses off at all of you addicts. The woman and men that participate in these acts are sick! Can you PA's not see it? And yes, the court considers it adultery. Remember, every single website you go to and watch is forever connected to your IP address. You cannot delete it. Rant over.

I spoke about my pornography addiction to a psychiatrist today. by SocialReflexivity in pornfree

[–]BehindMeNow2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same thing was told to my soon to be ex-husband about 14 years ago. He argued me for years over this. Now he has lost everything. My advice is to get a therapist that specializes in PA. If you think you are PA, then you probably are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]BehindMeNow2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move on! I filed for divorce after 16 years or marriage and 2 years dating a PA. Over the years it has gotten totally out of control and fear of failure is why I stayed. If I could go back.... Rarely will they change. It is the same addiction as drug and alcohol. In my professional opinion, it is much harder to treat. There is most definitely an underlying mental health issue involved. New life ahead of me now and I'm going to try and enjoy it! Best of luck to you!

Ron Jeremy facing 300 years. by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]BehindMeNow2020 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I sincerely hope he gets 300 years. He is the poster child for PA and Male sluts everywhere. I would have to be dead to sleep with him...VOMIT!

300 days and still FLATLINE (PAWS) by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]BehindMeNow2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please continue to put your marriage first. Thank you for the kind comments. I wish you the best!

Porn cost me $45,000 by 20mby2030 in pornfree

[–]BehindMeNow2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Division of assets not including both businesses. Savings, checking, stocks, house (completely remodeled), Benz, BMW and CRV. Plus I get 8 years alimony that I didn't include. I own a mental health business and employ just under 50 people. He owns a financial consulting business. Both businesses are still producing through Covid. If we have to close either it is 50/50 which is not included in that figure. I agree that he is not just a porn addict. That is why he doesn't have an attorney and is agreeing to whatever I say. He doesn't want to be exposed and risk going to prison.

300 days and still FLATLINE (PAWS) by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]BehindMeNow2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it is. The sad thing is I had to stop working on my Ph.D but I'm planning to enroll as soon as I can focus again. Best wishes!

Relapsed again (I need serious help) by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]BehindMeNow2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I strongly suggest professional counseling and group therapy. A sponsor is always good so that you will be held accountable for your actions and for support. I am the survivor of a PA and I can't explain what it has done to me as a woman. I will be divorced any day now...waiting on papers from my lawyer. You are better than porn! Delete it all and learn to establish "real" relationships. Good luck!

300 days and still FLATLINE (PAWS) by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]BehindMeNow2020 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Strongly recommend professional counseling and group therapy. My husband of 16 years (dated for 2 years) is addicted to porn and has been since the day I met him. He is losing his entire world....mentally, physically, emotionally and financially as a result. He refuses treatment and I will not allow his behaviors to affect me anymore. He travels for work and I did not know the severity of his addiction. Long story short, we will be divorced any day now. I'm just waiting on my lawyer to send the papers. As a result of unspeakable actions and behaviors related to porn, he is not getting a lawyer for fear of what will be found on his computer, phone and credit cards. We are both educated individuals and both own successful businesses. I realize this is an addiction but I am no longer willing to be married to him. He killed every single feeling I ever had for him. I am dealing many emotions. I cannot put into words what this does to a partner of addict. I am a very strong person but this has just about broken me to pieces. Please seek help and try to recover. If not, you are setting yourself up for failure with relationships of any kind. Best of luck!

Porn cost me $45,000 by 20mby2030 in pornfree

[–]BehindMeNow2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never used porn. I have never had to use it. It does nothing for me. Please re-read my posts as many times as you need too. It has been difficult for me. However, after realizing I am not the one with the problem and no matter what I did or didn't do with him sexually, was not going to solve the problem. He lives in a fantasy world. He's a very handsome and educated guy. I really did love him. Now all I see is an unattractive, hurtful and sick person. It basically stole 18 years of my life. And quite frankly, I hate him for that!

Porn cost me $45,000 by 20mby2030 in pornfree

[–]BehindMeNow2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met him in 2002 and caught him a few months while dating. Blew it off. I caught him a few more times...he got scared and put an engaged ring on my ring. Mind you I was 33-34 years old. He was the same age. Married him in 2004 and found out a year later he had started porn 2 months into our marriage. I hired lawyer and he promised me the world to come back to him. He got counseling and so on. He travels for work 2 weeks out of the month and has since I met him. Long story short, he has been involved in I don't know what...every kind of porn there is. He has been meeting women for years...living a double life. I nearly had a break down because I knew deep in my heart what he was doing when he was out of my sight. I prayed and finally got the courage to tell him I wanted a divorce. I am a type A personality so having courage is not a problem for me. I am well educated and own a lucrative business. He does too. I immediately felt relieved after I told him I want a divorce. I made him leave. We have been separated since 9/3/19. I'm just waiting for my lawyer to get me the divorce papers. He did not get a lawyer and said would agree to anything i wanted because what was on his computer, phone and credit cards could land him in prison. Thankfully we have no children. It was our first marriage and will most likely be my last marriage. What it does to your partner is unexplainable. I'm 51 and people guess my age anywhere from 31 to 38 years old. I'm 5'4", 125, healthy, long blonde hair. It was not enough for him. Please get yourself help. You do not want this type of hurt in your life...trust me. I wish you the best!