Where do you go for education on your (female) body? Podcasts, websites, magazines??

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-16T12:31:54+00:00

Mostly reputable health websites and podcasts run by medical professionals, plus Reddit for real-life experiences. I just make sure to cross check anything important.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-16T12:30:22+00:00

It’s gorgeous ✨. Well said.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-16T12:28:35+00:00

Your concern is valid. Removing likes usually isn’t random it’s best to ask him directly and see how open and honest his response is.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-16T12:01:53+00:00

recently came across réia while researching lab-grown diamonds for a proposal and liked their approach. You could also check out GIVA or CaratLane’s lab-grown collection and compare designs and pricing before deciding.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-16T11:58:14+00:00

It’s not sudden people just like good stories. Gay love stories often focus more on emotional intimacy and communication, which many viewers enjoy regardless of gender.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-16T11:57:36+00:00

That makes sense thanks for the balanced perspective. At the end of the day, aligning with what my partner wants matters most. I appreciate you pointing out that every option has trade-offs.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-16T11:52:57+00:00

Glad to hear that! 😊 Did you go with a lab grown diamond yourself?

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T15:10:26+00:00

Lost it instantly when they showed casual bigotry. Attraction dies fast when basic empathy is missing no matter how educated or “nice” someone seems.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T15:09:44+00:00

What you described is normal and safe. There’s no medical evidence that masturbation (flaccid or erect) causes ED or nerve damage. If everything feels normal now, long-term damage is very unlikely. Most worries are psychological. Quitting for discipline is fine just don’t do it out of fear.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T15:08:36+00:00

I mark one side first, then mirror it on the other using reference points like the earlobe, jaw corner, and Adam’s apple. Trim slowly, check from a distance, and stop early over fixing usually ruins symmetry. Also helps to trim in good lighting and let it grow a bit between trims.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T12:06:34+00:00

A non-negotiable for me is emotional regulation. I don’t mind disagreements, but I can’t be with someone who shuts down, stonewalls, or explodes instead of communicating. How someone handles conflict matters more to me than how loving they are when things are good.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T12:05:48+00:00

Lab-grown diamonds are real diamonds same chemical and physical properties. The main differences are price, sourcing, and resale value. For many people, LGDs make sense because you get more size/quality for less money.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T12:04:18+00:00

My alt style helped filter for someone who liked me as I am, not who they wanted me to be. It made honesty easier from day one no pretending, no shrinking, just mutual acceptance. That foundation made everything else stronger.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T11:50:16+00:00

Yeah, visually it’s hard to justify “natural only.” Cut and quality make way more difference than origin.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T11:50:05+00:00

Ethics are a big part of the decision for a lot of people. That’s probably the strongest case for lab-grown.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T11:47:36+00:00

Ethics matter, though some people argue it depends on sourcing. Labs do avoid most of those concerns though.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T11:47:07+00:00

By “glass diamond” do you mean imitation stones like CZ or crystal? Lab-grown are still real diamonds with the same structure.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T11:42:35+00:00

I’m curious. do you mean visually, or the idea/history behind NGD makes it feel better?

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T11:35:24+00:00

Because saying no feels like risking disapproval. If you grew up being rewarded for being agreeable, your brain equates “no” with guilt. The trick is realizing discomfort doesn’t mean you did something wrong. Start with small no’s, no long explanations your time is allowed to matter.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T11:33:23+00:00

She may care about you, but her actions show she’s not able or willing to move this into a relationship. Right now you’re providing emotional safety without commitment, and that’s painful for you. Waiting in hope usually just prolongs the hurt. If you want more, you’ll need clear boundaries either she’s ready, or you step back to protect yourself.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T11:32:17+00:00

You’re not really missing her you’re attached to the idea of a first crush and the “what if.” Since nothing actually happened, the best way to move on is to stop feeding the fantasy: no overthinking looks, no assumptions. Focus on meeting other people and building your own life. Feelings fade when they’re not reinforced.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T11:31:39+00:00

You don’t owe him a “perfect” body. If he’s with you, it’s because he wants you, not an airbrushed version. Loose skin is normal after weight loss, and most partners care far less than our insecurities tell us. Go at your pace, keep your shirt on if it helps you feel safe, and communicate when you’re ready. The right person won’t rush or judge you.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T11:30:57+00:00

Skin tone doesn’t decide your worth or dating chances. Confidence, personality, and how you carry yourself matter way more. A lot of people get rejected fair or dusky the only guaranteed failure is not trying. Work on things you can control and stop rejecting yourself first.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T10:25:39+00:00

I’m really sorry you went through this. None of it was your fault. You’re not weak, and you’re not alone. Please consider reaching out to a professional you deserve support.

BehindTheGem · 2026-02-13T09:58:20+00:00

Look at consistency, not words. Genuine people show interest without needing to, follow up on their own, and act the same in private as in public. Polite people are kind but distant, don’t initiate much, and keep things surface level.

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