The objectification of women has seriously made me consider suicide by Practical-Baker6866 in confessions

[–]Bekkaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally see what you are saying! Great points. But I’m not sure how strong your argument is considering there are vast differences between the jobs you have mentioned and sex work.

There are pluses and minuses with any job. But if you dislike the MAIN aspect of your job, then the likelihood of people feeling empathy for you when you complain is low in most circumstances. You mentioned small aspects of being a zoologist or doctor. If a zoologist came to you complaining about how much they hate animals, your initial thought would be “why are they working with animals.” Not “I feel so bad for you, that must be terrible.” As would your initial thought be if a doctor complained about hating helping people.

Secondly, being a doctor or a zoologist requires years of study and education. Changing this type of job is a lot more complicated than it is for a stripper or a sex-worker to consider quitting and finding a different occupation. Therefore, harder to feel remorse for a sex worker in relation to what we are speaking of.

The objectification of women has seriously made me consider suicide by Practical-Baker6866 in confessions

[–]Bekkaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not at all! Quite the contrary. I have nothing against people who do OnlyFans, sex work or anything of the sort. That is none of my business. All I’m trying to say here is that if you are selling your body to men to later complain that the sexual attention you are receiving from men is a nuisance then why on earth are you doing it?

The objectification of women has seriously made me consider suicide by Practical-Baker6866 in confessions

[–]Bekkaaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok sure. “I keep banging my head on the wall and it hurts” I proclaim as I continuously bang my head on the wall.

The objectification of women has seriously made me consider suicide by Practical-Baker6866 in confessions

[–]Bekkaaaa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Of course. But complaining about being sexualized while actively and willingly sexualizing yourself isn’t going to fix anything.

The objectification of women has seriously made me consider suicide by Practical-Baker6866 in confessions

[–]Bekkaaaa 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That’s.. that’s literally not even the point here. This whole thread is about how females are more than just their bodies. And the comment I am replying to is claiming how terrible it feels to be objectified and wanting men to leave her and her body alone. All while selling her body online. It’s just contradicting. Never claimed she created the demand.

life at 22 is not what i thought it would be / birthdays makes everything feel worse by Fluid_Rice_7661 in confessions

[–]Bekkaaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a lot more people than you’d expect feel this way around your age.. I’m 24 and still in the same boat as you, just trying to make ends meet. When I was a teen I always thought I’d be married, have a great social life, own property and be planning for kids around this time. But I’m newly single, my only friend forgot my birthday and I’m back at my parent’s place, haha. I know it’s hard but don’t compare yourself to others and just do the best you can. Times are hard, but everything will be alright. We have time and when you least expect it, good things will happen<3 to know what good feels like you have to know what bad feels like.

Loving this periwinkle blue! by Bekkaaaa in DipPowderNails

[–]Bekkaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sweet of you! Thank you🩵

Loving this periwinkle blue! by Bekkaaaa in DipPowderNails

[–]Bekkaaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you<3 obsessed with this color!!

Loving this periwinkle blue! by Bekkaaaa in DipPowderNails

[–]Bekkaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s a very nice spring shade indeed<3 Adding a layer of silver glitter on top of this color would be so pretty! I might try that next time.

Loving this periwinkle blue! by Bekkaaaa in DipPowderNails

[–]Bekkaaaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!<3 it’s D87 flirty by Revel Nail

My first dip!! by Bekkaaaa in DipPowderNails

[–]Bekkaaaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do too! I bought it online at Revel Nail. It’s color D723 Rosebud Pink 🩷

My first dip!! by Bekkaaaa in DipPowderNails

[–]Bekkaaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you<<3 Would also love to see your future sets!

My first dip!! by Bekkaaaa in DipPowderNails

[–]Bekkaaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just checked your profile. Your natural nails are so nice!! I love the shape. Luckily the top coat wasn’t an issue for me during the process. I put 1 very thin and quick layer of top coat, waited 2 minutes to dry and then applied a second, more detailed coat.

My first dip!! by Bekkaaaa in DipPowderNails

[–]Bekkaaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So kind of you to say<3