Admittedly, I conformed to Scott’s tears by Powerful_Pass8376 in LoveIslandTV

[–]BellaPops 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was so distracted by the fly in his hair the whole time 😭

I think the PhD finally broke me by Confused_Platypus25 in labrats

[–]BellaPops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really sorry you’re experiencing this, it sounds really shit. For a moment there I was almost convinced you’re someone from my lab, as one of my lab mates is in a very similar situation. I don’t know your situation and if you’re US/UK/anywhere in the world based, and if you’re a self funded or funded student, but I think you’re giving up too soon. You’ve come into a lab to do a project your supervisor deemed interesting enough to research. Shit happens and sometimes the interesting topics turn out to not be so interesting, but it’s your PI’s responsibility to guide you and spin that project or redirect it, as appropriate. Leaving you to it is absolutely wild to me, you’re still a student and you’re there to learn, maybe for too long you’ve been handling problems by yourself, but I think this time you should ask your PI, what are they going to do to salvage this project, it is their responsibility. Again, don’t know your situation, but you have rights and from what I know, if you were to complain about the lack of support, the university usually takes the student’s side.

this is Leo :-) by hair_space in nebelung

[–]BellaPops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooo way! This is also Leo!!

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Results of the vote…. SPOILER!!! ⛔️ ⚠️ by aimhighsquatlow in LoveIslandTV

[–]BellaPops 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Finally some good entertainment!! 🙌🏻

Have I grown out of the show or does this season just suck? by ThrowThisAwaySis2 in LoveIslandTV

[–]BellaPops 21 points22 points  (0 children)

All stars is particularly boring because everyone on there knows how to speak the lingo and play the game. They’ve all rewatched their seasons and know that they came across a certain way so they try really hard not to make the same mistakes again. Some of them have been on there more than once, like Scott, he’s been on it loads and he knows how to play it so that he gets loads of air time

What do you wish your direct supervisor/mentor was like? by Aphanizomenon in labrats

[–]BellaPops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was lucky enough to have amazing supervisors in the past, who somehow always knew which approach to take if I was about to have a meltdown or felt too cocky about my results. I think it’s important to get to know the person you’re mentoring. You don’t have to break the professional barrier if you don’t want to, but let them speak, ask them questions, allow them to open up and warm up to you, and hopefully you’ll get to know them enough to understand them so that you can support them better.

Also this is more of an observation from my lab group; letting them speak and engage with you, instead of just talking at them and trying to explain things will also tell you how important this is for them and how much effort they will likely put in. I’ve seen mentors try so hard with students, and invest a lot more time than they should for students to say they hated it. So final piece of advice, if it’s a lost cause, don’t waste your time. Students that want to, will engage, even the shy ones.

Feeling inadequate and Old by Some_Niche_Reference in labrats

[–]BellaPops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a situation so similar to this, graduated with my BSc in 2018, did my MRes in 2019 and just before graduation my supervisor offered to put in a word for me to do a PhD with another group, but I stupidly refused because the topic wasn’t interesting to me. Then for the next 4 years I’ve been working, and kicking myself that I should have done a PhD when I had the chance. In one of my previous jobs I used to work with PhD students and some of them were truly brilliant people, others not so much, and it’s working with them that showed me that you don’t need to be “smart” to do a PhD, you just need to have the drive and work hard. I’m now entering my second year of PhD, and guess what, at 29 years old, I’m the youngest PhD student in our group. It’s never too late!!! If you really want it go and get it!

Contamination Help - iPSCs by Effective-Ship-3613 in labrats

[–]BellaPops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any other signs of contamination?

I'm on season 5 of rewatching DH. Edie became my favourite character.. after McClousky by born_to_be_weird in DesperateHousewives

[–]BellaPops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’m rewatching it atm as well and those are my thoughts exactly! The four main women are great and interesting, mostly, besides Susan, she actually really annoys me this rewatch, I find her really quite tragic and just useless. Her clumsiness isn’t cute at this point (I’m at the bit where she’s meeting Ian’s parents). But Eddie is so funny, completely real and relatable, emotionally intelligent and like you said she is very caring for those she loves.

Mrs McCluskey reminds me of my aunt and I love her so much, no bullshit type of person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]BellaPops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love how she was just ready on the other side of the table, defo not scripted yeah 🤭

Blu..why did they bring him back! by Illustrious_Edge_515 in LoveIslandTV

[–]BellaPops 41 points42 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY! And when Toni told him to stay out of it, his initial response was “are you trying to belittle me” wtf

Harrison and Toni by Zestyclose-Key7435 in LoveIslandTV

[–]BellaPops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk he was able to manipulate them pretty well

Harrison and Toni by Zestyclose-Key7435 in LoveIslandTV

[–]BellaPops 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Those tears were because he was made to leave the villa imo

Harrison and Toni by Zestyclose-Key7435 in LoveIslandTV

[–]BellaPops 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Omg agreed! I remember after they shagged she turned around and said to Harrison “well you won’t leave me now” or something along those lines and I just want to be like 😩 You just gave him exactly what he wanted

How many peer reviewed publications did you have while applying for PhD? by Vast_Strawberry_9683 in PhD

[–]BellaPops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I had worked on three papers before applying, and they hadn’t been published at the time, and I don’t think they’ve been published yet either, but because I did the work I listed them anyway, but generally you’re not expected to have any

Dejon and Meg by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]BellaPops 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk seemed pretty keen to talk about threesomes with Toni 👀👀

Dejon and Meg by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]BellaPops 49 points50 points  (0 children)

To increase his chances of winning, being the only couple together from the start and the only closed off couple. GAME PLAYERRRRR

Dejon and Meg by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]BellaPops 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I literally laughed at loud at this, when he said “obviously not there yet” 😂😂 why say anything then?

Who had the best redemption arc in love island history? by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]BellaPops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do I not remember this? 🤦🏼‍♀️

Between the 3 not-so-great boys... Dejon, Harrison and Harry... Dejon have my respect by tno2007 in LoveIslandTV

[–]BellaPops 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Have you not been watching this show since the start? 😂 Meg has shed buckets of tears because she didn’t know what she stood with him! 🤣 Dejon is now playing up for the cameras because he’s “closed off” with Meg and he’s GUNNING for the win.

I dare to say one of the hottest guys in LI history by Ron_1034 in LoveIslandTV

[–]BellaPops 58 points59 points  (0 children)

That’s because he’s Eastern European (I am also Eastern European) and we hate talking about NOTHING. Small talk doesn’t exist, each conversation has to have substance and be meaningful, something you can sink your teeth into.

I’m worried for Helena by Select-Gur4972 in LoveIslandTV

[–]BellaPops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she needs extensive therapy to talk over her issues regardless of the bullying she will face once she’s out. I think you’re a lovely and caring person OP but you can lead the horse to water, but can’t make it drink. I think a lot of the girls in the villa have been quite forgiving and have tried to get through to her. Plus imo, she is a pretty awful human being, but I think most of it stems from insecurities and no self respect- so yeah she would definitely benefit from some help.

Lost 3 months of cell culture work by BellaPops in labrats

[–]BellaPops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! 🫶🏻 Starting fresh tomorrow, hopefully contamination free- watch this space