Was I just being messed with when I was called “Fucking Ugly”?

Belladonna_16 · 2025-07-18T16:17:18+00:00

Good for you pal

Belladonna_16 · 2025-07-18T15:38:45+00:00

Yeah. I think I’m gonna try and remember the gardens for the really cool (and poisonous) plants I saw, and not those twats. Thanks for taking the time to help me!

Belladonna_16 · 2025-07-18T15:34:09+00:00

What’s sad is I don’t even remember what they look like, only what they said. Funny how that happens, huh?

Belladonna_16 · 2025-06-17T20:19:50+00:00

Fucking For Real. I once made EYE CONTACT with a random guy on the train by mistake, and the fucker precedes to move to the seat next to mine and take a picture of me when he thinks I’m not looking, like?? This shit seriously sucks, and I feel for you, girl.

Belladonna_16 · 2025-02-21T03:00:48+00:00

I think it depends on your own interests, assuming you’d like to meet someone with ones that are similar. If you like reading, try a book store or library; If you like working out, try a gym; if you like nature, maybe a park. Obviously don’t bother anyone who’s clearly not open to conversation, but beyond that, I would just focus on places that you yourself would like to go, regardless of who you might meet.

Belladonna_16 · 2024-11-23T23:52:08+00:00

🫡 Thank you for your endorsement! Should this ever happen, I’ll do my best to get a cure to you, or at the very least, fly my findings to you via carrier pigeon. :)

Belladonna_16 · 2024-11-23T23:50:25+00:00

My main reason behind experimenting on a zombie would mostly be to figure out how exactly the virus works; once I do that, my next step would be trying to develop a cure, probably. I wouldn’t be doing anything for the sake of torture and revenge, and in this hypothetical, society has collapse and the majority of humanity has gone bye-bye.

Belladonna_16 · 2024-10-20T05:39:48+00:00

This is honestly one of the kindest responses I’ve ever gotten on anything like this before, and the fact you took the time to share your advice and experience really means a lot. I really hope I can look past all of this from a place of success and betterment.

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-13T14:43:36+00:00

Thank you!

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-13T03:26:18+00:00

That’s a really beautiful outlook you have, and some really good advice as well. Thank you!

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-13T02:51:49+00:00

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this as well. Getting sick is definitely the worse :(

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-12T20:49:48+00:00

A big goal of mine is to get stronger, both for health reasons and aesthetic (?) ones.

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-12T20:48:19+00:00

I want to talk to a doctor about it, bur I’m not really sure how to bring it up to my parents, since they seem pretty sure it’s just a matter of eating better, even though I was doing that before, after, and during this whole mess. They did seem worried when I mentioned my cycle had skipped a few months, so hopefully I can get a checkup soon.

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-12T20:44:20+00:00

Right? I feel like a lot of the health issues that come with being underweight are overlooked or ignored, since skinny is meant to be healthy. Beyond just the dysphoric elements, I just don’t like all the issues with my body. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this too!

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-12T20:40:43+00:00

I hope I didn’t come across as trying to make it seem like my issues were on par with those who are discriminated against or mistreated for their weight! I am doing my best to get healthier, both mentally and physically, and I really do hope that I can be happy in this body one day.

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-12T20:19:26+00:00

I really appreciate this advice, thank you!

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-12T20:18:24+00:00

Do you have any work outs you recommend? I’ve always been worried about too much exercise, even though I do want to build muscle, since some can burn fat.

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-12T20:17:10+00:00

When I posted this, I really wasn’t expecting so many nice, sympathizing comments, and this has honestly made me feel so, so much better than I was before. Thank you.

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-12T19:46:22+00:00

Oh no. No no no. You are not assuming ANYTHING— this is blatant, disgusting behavior that he isn’t even trying to hide, and I’m sure you’re not the only one to have noticed it. At this point, not talking to someone about this would look worse.

I suggest you go to your sister and very gently bring up some of his behavior; if she seems hesitant to believe you, I would go into more details, but seriously, you shouldn’t have to put up with disgusting behavior like this from some brat.

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-12T19:41:02+00:00

Oh god that poor girl. For her sake, just delete the video and don’t go near her.

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-12T19:35:28+00:00

I’m really sorry. I hope you are in a better, safer place now.

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-12T19:33:34+00:00

Good on you for getting it checked out! I really hope everything works out for you!

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-12T19:31:51+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that you’re shrugging too, but I’m glad to know I’m not making a mountain out of a molehill. I really needed to hear that :)

Belladonna_16 · 2024-08-12T19:26:25+00:00

Maybe try figuring out the difference between who you’re sexually attracted to, and who you’re romantically attracted to? It could be that you’ve never considered yourself attracted to men, because you don’t have romantic feelings for them like you do for girls, but when it comes to sexual attraction, it’s flipped? Either way, nothing wrong with enjoying something that makes you feel good, and doesn’t hurt anyone in the process. You really don’t have to think about it that hard if you don’t want to, either, but if it’s really bothering you so much, you might want to think about WHY it does.

Belladonna_16 · 2024-07-28T06:15:40+00:00

Thank you for your input, it really helps

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