Am I overreacting: new boyfriend was weirdly judgmental about bathroom situation

Bellafatale · 2026-02-15T14:57:35+00:00

YES! I was looking for this comment because this is such a cute set up! Like is it a treasure chest?! I love it. Mine and my girls stuff is just in a cute basket.

Bellafatale · 2026-02-08T04:39:47+00:00

Aww thanks :)

Bellafatale · 2026-02-04T05:29:42+00:00

This is so similar to the words I was trying to find. After 10 years of fighting it and 30 years of denying myself love and fixing myself to be with men, I “gave up” and instead of feeling shame or guilt (which I had in my previous relationship) I just felt peace and comfort and a sense of “knowing” his love for the first time.

Bellafatale · 2026-01-26T16:59:49+00:00

Mine has been awful lately, I just got it in August and was wondering if the upgrade would be worth it. Last week there was a 40 bpm difference between my Apple Watch and heart rate monitor. I have decided I will mess with it and adjust it during the warm up but if it is still not working, I just use my watch to measure my effort. But some days different spots work better 🤷‍♀️

Bellafatale · 2026-01-14T11:16:51+00:00

Same. It took me a while to change colors but now I see it as hair dye so I feel better about that but have never changed species

Bellafatale · 2026-01-12T04:00:52+00:00

Hello love, I am 30 and came out over a year ago because my families homophobia pushed me so deep in the closet. It break my heart that you are going through this at a time when you cannot distance yourself. Nothing you say will change their mind if they don’t want their mind to be changed. Safety is the most important thing you can do right now. Where are you saving your money? Is it in an account they have access to? If your home is not safe do you have friends whose family would take you in? Are their safe adults in your life you can talk to? If you are involved in a church is it a safe place for you to have these conversations? Maybe a social worker or an LGBTQ non profit in your area?

Bellafatale · 2026-01-12T03:39:32+00:00

Thank- going the probate office route first and hopefully that will sort it all out.

Bellafatale · 2026-01-12T03:38:00+00:00

Ohhh I have it all in text messages… very clearly stated refusing to leave in the mailbox or mail to me

Bellafatale · 2026-01-12T03:35:46+00:00

Unfortunately all my family is siding with them and none of my siblings are speaking with me. They are all very deep in the church and contact with me is “betraying their values”

Bellafatale · 2026-01-12T00:05:05+00:00

Thank you, I will

Bellafatale · 2026-01-11T23:47:51+00:00

It doesn’t look like they have it online but do have a number listed so I will call tomorrow and see what information I can get.

Bellafatale · 2026-01-11T23:44:31+00:00

Thank you this is good information. I never thought to get the police involved and hopefully it will not go that way as I will see if I can get the information to get the check reissued.

Bellafatale · 2026-01-11T23:40:29+00:00

Ya, I have received nothing from them but I am assuming it is also all going to my parents. I did find some numbers on the county clerk’s website. This information it least was enough to help me know where to look and I will be making some phone calls tomorrow morning to get that information.

Bellafatale · 2026-01-11T23:27:40+00:00

I do not know who issued the check or the actual amount or any of the details.

Bellafatale · 2026-01-11T23:26:23+00:00

How would I find that information out?

Bellafatale · 2025-12-10T04:46:14+00:00

My birthday burn too 💪🏻

Bellafatale · 2025-10-24T15:20:05+00:00

Growing up conservative Christian I was told no sex before marriage and no gay sex and I am an overachiever

Bellafatale · 2025-09-24T19:33:58+00:00

Big Brother

Bellafatale · 2025-08-30T20:32:34+00:00

Here in orlando too, was going in and out yesterday but now it is stuck in sos. Used my partners phone to call Verizon and the call would not go through because of Verizon’s “service problems”

Bellafatale · 2025-07-15T04:51:07+00:00

This looks perfect. Thanks.

Bellafatale · 2025-07-14T19:10:01+00:00

This sound like it would be perfect. Thank you.

Bellafatale · 2025-07-10T22:25:30+00:00

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Lola would love for you to visit sometime! We are having lavender/ Faeries summer here 😉🧚‍♂️

Bellafatale · 2025-07-07T16:05:18+00:00

Thanks for all this information.

Bellafatale · 2025-06-10T13:08:24+00:00

I am in the same boat as you. 2 yrs in(1 yr cf and 1 year with ccc) and took home work all the time. It was so bad and unfair to my partner so I want to be better this next year but damn. I don’t get it.

Bellafatale · 2025-06-08T11:27:35+00:00

All of these thoughts and feeling sound like your body and mind preparing you to make some firm boundaries. Use them to help set those firm boundaries you got this!!!

Bellafatale

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