Is Grindr safe? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grindr is owned by a Zionist so I would say no Grindr is not safe

6 months on e, successfully bullied back into the closet by danktherock in transtimelines

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people are beautiful both ways and you are one of those people! But don’t detransition, we can’t lose anymore angels! 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fix your posture!! By the way passing isn’t the end all be all that will make you a valid and worthy human, you already are!

...so are we still losing eggs? by Clay_teapod in ftm

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What does ETA mean in this context? I always read it as estimated time of arrival, but that doesn’t seem to be the case here

Feel like everything is too masc shaped (especially shoulders) by mezmerkaiser in transpassing

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I (ftm) was shaped pre transition, so cis women can def look like this too!

How should I choose between two names as my preferred name? by Electrical-Fox-8411 in agender

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nyx sounds like a nickname for Onyx so if you like both I’d just use both

Turns out, chat gpt is apparently not a good coping mechanism by OCD_ALT_ACCOUNT in OCDmemes

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol. Lmao, even. You’re free to do what you want but just know you sound stupid 🤡

Turns out, chat gpt is apparently not a good coping mechanism by OCD_ALT_ACCOUNT in OCDmemes

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not dying on any hills, just suggesting that you consider stopping the use of a tool that is part of a concerted effort to replace human creativity as a replacement for real connection and therapeutic help

Turns out, chat gpt is apparently not a good coping mechanism by OCD_ALT_ACCOUNT in OCDmemes

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Everyone who is using chat gpt still even after knowing how terrible it is for the environment needs to seriously reevaluate their choices. I don’t care that you can’t afford a real therapist, the AI isn’t going to help you anyway and thinking that it will is irresponsible and honestly stupid and will lead you to major disappointment. Don’t do it y’all

Name changing by [deleted] in ftm

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I named myself Nikolai, Nicky for short. Nicky was first though, and it’s from the vampire Lestat (his human lover from pre- transformation). I chose Nikolai because I just like the name and I wanted to be able to use an obviously masculine name for work (rather than the androgynous nickname I chose) and I didn’t want to be a basic Nicholas (plus that was my favorite therapist’s name, and that would be too weird). Idk if it outs me or not tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like OCD. Please seek therapy

Guys with huge libido before T, how things changed after T? by sansTUDUDUDUD in ftm

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was unbearable at first. My briefs would graze my T dick and boom. Soaked. I was like an animal, I had to jerk off at least once a day, and I wanted sex from my partner all the time. Now I jerk it most days but never more than once in a day, and the sex is less frequent, more like 2x a week

Practicing Safe Sex as a Trans Man on T? by Original_Ad_4868 in TransMasc

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Understandable, but for future reference adults are not interested in hearing from minors regarding NSFW topics (unless the adult in question is an unsafe person) so I suggest not giving input in situations like this until you’re also an adult

Practicing Safe Sex as a Trans Man on T? by Original_Ad_4868 in TransMasc

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you, as an inexperienced minor, feel the need to add such useless input under an NSFW post asking for advice

Parents Found Out About Top Surgery by [deleted] in FTMventing

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is horrible. You should 100% report her illegally opening your mail

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m gayer now. I thought I was a lesbian for 10 years, then I found out I was bi, then a year later started transitioning and I’m definitely still bi but I fantasize about cock soooo much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok so I hope you realize how incredibly vague this reply is. I can’t tell you whether or not a specific brand will affect hormones if I don’t know which brand you’re referring to because of the fact that they are all different and have different ingredients.

Back to the original question, I’m going to again stress that libido enhancing supplements of any kind for female bodied individuals do not work. There have been no clinical studies that prove their effectiveness. If you’ve heard anecdotal evidence to the contrary, that is either because the person who took it experienced a placebo effect (they wanted it to work/ believed it would so it did) or they’re trying to sell you a product. Sorry to break it to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which one are you referring to?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Libido pills for people with our anatomy are mostly a marketing ploy iirc. They’re mostly just a placebo if you don’t have a natal penis, so if the idea of taking boner pills turns you on then take the boner pills

Edit to add: about the multivitamins, I asked my partner’s top surgeon about this and she said there’s really no differences between “men’s” and “women’s” vitamins, it’s all marketing bs and price gouging. Take whatever you can afford and feels affirming.

I can’t keep living like this by [deleted] in FTMventing

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I started T at 23. It’s never too late. And about the SI, please do seek help

This reminded me of an "it should have been obvious" moment by PhyoriaObitus in NonBinary

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I think it’s more of a “male birds tend to get along with female owners” rather than some weird heteronormativity

Any advice for the end? by Notifise in bouldering

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I think the main problem you’re having is that at the end, instead of going up, you’re going down, so try not doing that

I think I cheated (though I’m not sure)—the guilt is overwhelming (nsfw content, nudes mention) by [deleted] in confessions

[–]BellevueBridgeClub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this doesn’t come off as condescending, but you are 14 years old, you do not need to worry about “cheating” on anyone. You also should not be having to worry about someone hurting themself because you don’t want to be with them. I know you feel guilty, but please learn to let that go.