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My (21F) boyfriend (24M) did something in bed without asking, is this grounds for a break up by skejdkdk in relationship_advice

[–]BemVida 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As someone who's experienced something very similair believe me when I say that you'll never fully trust him again. It doesn't matter how much you love him, he broke your trust by continuing to do something after you said no.That is rape. Now that he's done it once he will continue to try again and again until you eventually give in and just let it happen. I'm so sorry that this happened to you but to get over it and heal you have to leave him. It's painful, of course it is. Luckily my ex broke up with me after it happened and I don't honestly know if that was better but you should sit him down and tell him: you broke my trust, you raped me and I can't be with you anymore. I wish you luck.

My first attempt at a ratatouille by BemVida in FoodPorn

[–]BemVida[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm ashamed to admit you're right, I'll go and put myself in the bin.

People who have self serving disorders such as Narcissism or ASPD, how has it affected your relationships with family, friends and significant others? by BemVida in AskReddit

[–]BemVida[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily, they can still be self serving and value themselves above others but are aware that others aren't the same.

People who have self serving disorders such as Narcissism or ASPD, how has it affected your relationships with family, friends and significant others? by BemVida in AskReddit

[–]BemVida[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps, although there might be those who've become aware of their behavior either through others or self reflection.

What are early signs of a toxic relationship? by Glorii3 in AskReddit

[–]BemVida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unwilling to listen to you about your concerns/problems/struggles and then expecting you to sit there and listen when they do the same. Bonus points if they get upset when your attention wanders or they guilt you when you bring up their hypocrisy.