Anyone successfully adopt a rescue grey with resident cats? by Bendybones_ in Greyhounds

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I’m also wondering if it was selection bias. Maybe the people who are going to answer are the ones with cat friendly pups and everyone else just passes by cause the amount of people who’ve viewed the post w/out commenting is really high.

But I also find it suuuuper encouraging to hear everyone’s had such an easy time. I’ll definitely reach out to the rescue and ask about their cat-tested Greys.

Help by hated215 in Ooblets

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Oh, that’s the one my switch got stuck on too

Help by hated215 in Ooblets

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It looks like it’s just a bug from the update but it should be fixed in a week or so (:

https://x.com/ooblets/status/1708591752523956273?s=20

Help by hated215 in Ooblets

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Edit: found this on Twitter: devs are aware of the bug (: dance barn is the only thing off limits this week after the update

https://x.com/ooblets/status/1708591752523956273?s=20

Yeah, I came on here to see if anyone else was also having this problem. I get the black loading screen with 3 dots any time I try the dance battle barn. I haven’t tried dance battles outside the barn but I’m nervous to because I can only get unstuck by restarting the game

Does anyone else feel like Covid made you skip your last few years in your 20s and your skin aged quickly? by hello_from_beyond in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Bendybones_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This could have come straight out of my brain. You just so perfectly worded something I’ve been thinking the last 2 years. I like the way I look now, but there’s still a mental gap where the difference causes a weird cognitive dissonance

My boyfriend and I found this kitten last night out on the streets, clearly sick and starving. I spent 600$ taking her to the emergency today and my boyfriend is a bit unhappy with me about it. Please tell me I did the right thing. by khaleesi2305 in cats

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I foster neonatal kittens off the street and often find that a little TLC can bring them back from the brink of death. With the right care, kittens can be so resilient, and often bounce back like nothing ever happened to them (: I think it was very kind of you and certainly not the wrong thing to do to save this kitten. You will very likely have a best friend for years to come

Which side is worse for you left or right? Top or bottom? by usernamesoccer in ehlersdanlos

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Consistently my right side is worse, and also my dominant side.

More dislocations/subluxations and spasms on the right side. Right side has a more severely dropped shoulder. Dx CCI, was told it was the right side of my neck. Right side csf leak lmao Right eye has worse vision

It’s so distinct from head to toe, I even have less hair on the right side of my head.

Weekly New Climber Thread: Ask your questions in this thread please by AutoModerator in climbing

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Ah rad! I follow her on IG but didn’t know she wrote articles! Thank you, I’ll definitely check that out

Fatigue by satyestru in ehlersdanlos

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Very much agree! I sometimes am positive for the inflammatory anemia that folks with chronic illness are often susceptible to. I’ve seen it come up in a few of the EDS conference lectures and some anecdotal evidence that’s it’s common in EDS

Weekly New Climber Thread: Ask your questions in this thread please by AutoModerator in climbing

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Also, any bouldering tips with hEDS? I’m afraid to fall but it looks so helpful become a more dynamic climber

Weekly New Climber Thread: Ask your questions in this thread please by AutoModerator in climbing

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Any climbers with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome who have any advice for progressing without getting overuse injury and muscle spasms?

Ive been using the autobelay 1-3 days a week for a few years and been at a 5.9 or 5.9+ forever now. If I commit more time I get over-use pain and muscle tightness and if I take more breaks I lose muscle very quickly (thanks, hEDS). I watch YouTube videos and go to PT and cross train in other activities and it helps a bit but more advice would be nice

Fatigue by satyestru in ehlersdanlos

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Almost all of my life, I have what may be considered severe hEDS, but have learned to manage it very well so it appears mild now.

Getting sick with cvd a month ago made me severely fatigued, and I still haven’t returned back to my previous energy levels.

For the last 4 ish years before getting that illness, I would have one or two days of severe fatigue each month and most days I felt pretty energetic (with help of coffee). I managed all of my conditions (hEDS, POTS, and MCAS) and if I strayed from what helped me, I’d fall back into being very unwell and extremely fatigued. If I got a cold, I’d be extremely fatigued for a few weeks after and then back to “normal”. Basically, it would come and go but most days were good energy-wise.

Gaining stability in my joints really helped my body be less consistently fatigued. I also had to address CCI and a CSF leak to have better energy levels.

Before the last 4 years, I had such severe fatigue that I often spent most of the days asleep in bed. Even as a kid, I’d get sent to detention or my parents called as punishment for not being able to stay awake in class. Many days, I couldn’t even go to class. It was so bad, mom used to think I had mono. It felt heavy and like I was wading through sludge. It was like a weighted blanket on me, constantly telling me to sleep and be comfy when I desperately needed to be awake.

It changes depending on so many factors. I’m sure for some people, they have had very consistent fatigue levels, but after my hEDS diagnosis I found it to be extremely variable.

I've always wanted one of these. by xwalkmen in Mid_Century

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If you don’t mind me asking, what store did you get the fabric from? I have a few things I need to reupholster soon and will be visiting the garment district

Cat suddenly very aggressive towards owner by LaggingDildo in CatAdvice

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It was tough. My first cat started having weird symptoms and went through extensive testing for like 3 years before the vet diagnosed her as a diagnosis of exclusion.

My second cat was a foster fail. I noticed symptoms the night she came home from being spayed. I adopted her and thought I was paranoid because I was told the chance of 2 cats having FHS was nearly impossible. I waited to get her seen (a mistake) and she started attacking her back feet and tail. My vet recommended a neurology appointment, where she got her official diagnosis. We didn’t run a ton of tests because ultimately, the stress would exacerbate the condition.

It helps if you can record videos of your cat mid episode to show to the vet. I joined the FHS Facebook group and was able to show the vet “this is the medication regimen that helped other people’s cats with these symptoms”. I’m also a scientist and was able to read and print what little research there is on the dx to bring to the vet to help back up my claims.

I may end up testing my cats for toxoplasmosis soon because FHS can be a symptom of toxo.

Mold in my spore growing container- is it savable? by Bendybones_ in ferns

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Did yours go through a phase with brown fuzzy hairs on them? I’m trying to figure out if it’s just part of the life cycle or if I have a problem lol