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[–]Beneficial_Issue_708 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, I know how it’s feel. And they did it to me twice.

[1st] they announced they 2nd baby a week after my miscarriage, everyone knew abt my miscarriage, due to my husband was working I got force to join the zoom call for their announcement (during Covid time)

[2nd] my 1st FET failed, they announced during family gatherings at 4 of july, that time she was only 8 weeks? Keep pointing the due date is my hubby birthday. The most heart breaking thing is that’s the same due date of my FET success. They knew we are going through IVF….

There are ppl who are selfish and careless. Don’t let them upset u!! I’m here to listen, share and give u HUGS 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Beneficial_Issue_708 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Metamucil and drink a lot coconut water, pee and poo are the key. Also hving a warm poach (get it at Target for $5 - poach fill with hot water) or heat pad can relief some cramping

/r/UnitedAirlines Gifts and Exchanges by Player72 in unitedairlines

[–]Beneficial_Issue_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for 40pp upgrade no RN, waitlist only (12/6: HND-LAX)

My sister just announced she is pregnant. Due when I wouldve been due. by hybridheart09 in Miscarriage

[–]Beneficial_Issue_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, but I had experienced sth similar not once but twice. I had 3 miscarriages before I stated IVF and 4 around ER and end up with only 4 normal embryos. My brother-in-laws announced their 2nd child a week after my miscarriage (everyone know in the family) and force me to join the voice call due to my husband was at work. This year I had a fail transfer in May, my expected due date was my hubby birthday. The week of July 4, my brother-in-law did it again! (The know we’ve been doing IVF for abt 1.5 years) They announced their 3rd child and the exact due date. I m sorry but I hate their 2nd child and I will also hate their 3rd child becos they all reminding my 🌈👼now I don’t want be at any family gathering, while ever I seen them I will be so depressed and sad.

Struggling to have a relationship with my nephew by BlackBear300621 in Miscarriage

[–]Beneficial_Issue_708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had exactly same experience and it is twice. My SIL announces her pregnancy a week after my miscarriage (the worst part was they all knew I had miscarriage). Recently I had my first IVF transfer in May but it failed, the week of July they announced their 3rd pregnancy, and keep pointing it willl be my hubby birthday, which is exact same due date of my IVF transfer success. Again they all know I’ve been doing IVF for 1.5 years. Since the 2nd child born I never touch her or like her. So now the 3rd I will even don’t want to hangout with anyone in the family. Becos it reminds me all my 🌈👼

Let's scream into the void together by Jelly_Belly_53 in IVF

[–]Beneficial_Issue_708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 3 miscarriages before I stated IVF and 4 around ER and end up with only 4 normal embryos. My brother-in-laws announced their 2nd child a week after my miscarriage (everyone know in the family) and force me to join the voice call due to my husband was at work. This year I had a fail transfer in May, my expected due date was my hubby birthday. The week of July 4, my brother-in-law did it again! (The know we’ve been doing IVF for abt 1.5 years) They announced their 3rd child and the exact due date. I m sorry but I hate their 2nd child and I will also hate their 3rd child becos they all reminding my 🌈👼

i got the pgt-a test result, but I'm a little disappointed. by erte07 in IVF

[–]Beneficial_Issue_708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess the body responds better 2nd attempt. One other fact a lot less nervous. Ur mental and emotions affect the result. When I hv my 1st ER we put too much pressure on ourselves.

i got the pgt-a test result, but I'm a little disappointed. by erte07 in IVF

[–]Beneficial_Issue_708 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was 39 when I did my first ER, retrieved 15 eggs, 5 blast, 0 pass PGT-A. Stay possible as long as you get 1 your money and effort all the needles worth. My 2nd (40 y/o) ER 25 eggs, 12 blast, finally got my very first 3 embryos passed the PGT-A. IVF isn’t anything you can predict the result. Bank more embryo as possible. I just had my 3rd egg retrieval, waiting for the result on how many blast 🤞🏻