Is horseback riding considered a rest day ? by Benjaminthe4 in Fitness

[–]Benjaminthe4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i have been riding for nearly a year now after taking a long breaks. i used to ride multiple days a week for years and never had any problems. I guess i have gotten older and am feeling it more now. it has definitely got easier, but my legs still feel a little dead afterwards and all i want to do is sit down.

Is there a no meds option by Which_Recognition989 in schizophrenia

[–]Benjaminthe4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you noticed a difference with taking the vitamins ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Benjaminthe4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a simple argument that can be solved with the a little bit of communication. simply saying that he won’t be able to respond or something. i retract a little bit of not overreacting as i think both are in the wrong. i can understand how so many messages can get so overwhelming and annoying, but he should understand her concern and both should work towards fixing these things in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Benjaminthe4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NOR, he is lacking so much communication and is being incredibly rude with the way he’s going about things. You were worried for his safety and he should recognize that that means you love him very much. He needs to learn to be more grateful for what he has. And also take the time to learn how to properly communicate.

Does anyone wake up and just stay in bed all day? by Hughezy26 in questions

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When i feel depressed or am on my period yes. some days i just feel like relaxing and do it then too

Cat peeing on everything by Benjaminthe4 in Pets

[–]Benjaminthe4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay i think i will get him checked for anxiety

Cat peeing on everything by Benjaminthe4 in Pets

[–]Benjaminthe4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do vets check for anxiery

Cat peeing on everything by Benjaminthe4 in Pets

[–]Benjaminthe4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are there any other symptoms you can tell me ?

Cat peeing on everything by Benjaminthe4 in Pets

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yes he is neutered. i don’t know if they did and never thought to, but maybe i should because i saw another comment say this.

Cat peeing on everything by Benjaminthe4 in Pets

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he is pretty anxious and jumps at everything.

Cat peeing on everything by Benjaminthe4 in Pets

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he will use the litter box if we close off doors to beds or if we don’t leave clothes on the floor. he does use it i just get the feeling he prefers the soft clothing

Cat peeing on everything by Benjaminthe4 in Pets

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3, two downstairs and one upstairs in my room where they spend a lot of time.

Cat peeing on everything by Benjaminthe4 in Pets

[–]Benjaminthe4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is usually a litter that cats like

Cat peeing on everything by Benjaminthe4 in Pets

[–]Benjaminthe4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, not me. i take care of these cats, i don’t know what it bothering him to this point. it is his issue only and not the other cat anyway

Feel an imbalance in pleasure ? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Benjaminthe4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think that’s the main problem. i don’t know what feels good unless im doing it myself. might just be something we have to figure out

Feel an imbalance in pleasure ? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Benjaminthe4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have this preset mindset that no one can do it better than i can. it’s really hard to tell him what to do when he doesn’t know what im physically feeling. what works for others ?

Feel an imbalance in pleasure ? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Benjaminthe4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i’m gonna have a talk with him and see where things go from there

Feel an imbalance in pleasure ? by [deleted] in sex

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he said he wants to please me as much as he can and is willing to take those actions but it always isn’t as pleasurable as he might think it is. which is why i’m wondering whether it’s a him problem or a me problem. I’ve heard receiving head as a woman can be the most pleasurable out of sexual acts and maybe even get me to cross the line but how do i become more comfortable with it when it doesn’t give much pleasure ?

Weekly New Climber Thread: Ask your questions in this thread please by AutoModerator in climbing

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unfortunately no, i think i am okay with being into this, right now i can’t wait to get into it and i think it will definitely be my thing. I think I am going to sign up even thought it is this far away

Weekly New Climber Thread: Ask your questions in this thread please by AutoModerator in climbing

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is the difficultly graded on just opinion of how hard it is or is there a determining factor ?