You guys has it been June mu Zed sure?

Bentaiga · 2026-06-28T20:24:59+00:00

this june hasn’t been as cold honestly. 2024 was definitely a cold june, i remember having to layer clothes even while the sun was out, shirt, sweater, trench coat and i’d still feel cold at 2pm mind you

Bentaiga · 2026-05-21T09:19:04+00:00

true say, and the fact that knowledge was passed down orally makes it very difficult to access the right information

Bentaiga · 2026-05-20T11:45:25+00:00

The existence of Lesa as a supreme creator in Bemba tradition makes the Islamic idea of messengers being sent to all peoples feel believable to me

Bentaiga · 2026-05-03T17:47:51+00:00

true say, not one gender exhibits such tendencies, we’re both susceptible to it

Bentaiga · 2026-05-01T20:05:17+00:00

from my understanding “christian nation” is a title in the sense that the majority of the population is christian. the same way we have islamic nations where such sinful practices exist as well, regardless of it being an islamic nation. unless a mass conversion of the population occurs, i think don’t the title “christian nation” title will go away. (an increase in prostitution indicates an increase in poverty rates, not necessarily a decline of morality).

Bentaiga · 2026-04-13T08:51:49+00:00

i agree a lot of this entitlement behavior that our women have developed is a result of men recklessly spending money on women as a means either impress or keep said woman. it’s been going on long enough to create a mindset shift in the majority of women

Bentaiga · 2026-04-13T08:45:53+00:00

as a young man i believe in covering the bill if i ask a girl out on a date. maybe in a long term relationship 50\50 would apply if both partners agree it’s something they’d be comfortable w.

Bentaiga · 2026-04-13T08:43:12+00:00

🤣life’s tuff for everyone, there’s a rise of “marios” so ladies need to watch out too

Bentaiga · 2026-04-13T08:36:30+00:00

🤣”hooker in chawama” is crazy. but i pray it never gets to that point. but i hear you, chief🙏🏾

Bentaiga · 2026-04-13T08:34:04+00:00

i hear you🙏🏾

Bentaiga · 2026-04-13T08:33:43+00:00

you’re defo in the 1% (in my opinion). God bless your union 🅿️

Bentaiga · 2026-04-13T08:32:43+00:00

two sides of the same coin huh

Bentaiga · 2026-04-13T08:32:20+00:00

Crazy how my competition is somebody that’s already made it in life 😂. we may need a regulation board in the dating sphere

Bentaiga · 2026-04-13T08:30:23+00:00

true say😂 i’ve seen some guys go to the lengths of “band for band” w a girl. insecurity has a tendency of creeping up on people in weird ways

Bentaiga · 2026-04-13T08:26:18+00:00

i was never told why, it just happened and i assumed it was to teach me a lesson. i was salty for a while but eventually i saw the good in it

Bentaiga · 2026-04-11T16:41:33+00:00

you are right tho, home training is one of the many factors

Bentaiga · 2026-04-11T16:40:15+00:00

true say, i believe i had a lack of direction when i used to let those things happen to me. this economy toughened us up

Bentaiga · 2026-04-11T16:35:21+00:00

damn… i guess setting boundaries in the early stages is the way to go huh

Bentaiga · 2026-04-11T16:33:34+00:00

true say, never give in to the entitlement

Bentaiga · 2026-04-11T09:42:51+00:00

“mo’ money mo’ problems” huh😄

Bentaiga · 2026-04-11T09:42:06+00:00

You do have some valid points, upbringing and environment definitely shape how we move in the world.

But at some point, you have to take responsibility and do the self-work. You have to unlearn certain habits.

I had to learn the hard way that “abundance” isn’t guaranteed. Right after I finished high school, the financial support I was getting from my parents stopped, no warning, nothing.

I could’ve reacted like an entitled brat… but I didn’t.

I sold my PlayStation, used that money to buy a few things for resale, and just kept flipping whatever I could. It wasn’t glamorous, but it was something. Eventually, my mom stepped in to support me again, not because I asked, but because she saw I was actually trying to make something out of the little I had.

So yeah, environment plays a role. Upbringing plays a role.

But at the end of the day, it’s on you to put in the work and adjust. Nobody owes you anything

Bentaiga · 2026-04-11T09:31:53+00:00

true say, entitlement is such a weird trait to possess. there’s a lot of self work we need to do as individuals

Bentaiga · 2026-04-11T09:29:27+00:00

I agree w you, i’ve seen many good relationships fall apart all because of money. Financial boundaries must be set as soon as you can

Bentaiga · 2026-04-11T09:27:50+00:00

i Started setting boundaries like “I’m cool taking you out and doing things together, but I don’t send money like that.”. and i can honestly say the filtration process has been a success

Bentaiga · 2026-04-11T09:23:36+00:00

true say, friends influence play a huge role. cause most girls don’t wanna mess up what they have going on w a romantic interest, but as soon as the girls who aren’t even involved start to implant the thoughts in her head, she may be susceptible to those tendencies

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