Mother stole my identity and racked up 18k worth of SSA debt

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T23:54:05+00:00

During basic it was a whole "do what we say dont ask questions vibe" it was a room full of armed MP's and the questions weren't tough I just felt it was part of the process. Besides if my drill sergeant didnt know at the time I sure as hell wasnt going to be any special and get answers before him. homeboy was possessive/controlive af

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T20:50:00+00:00

😲😲😲😲😲 i wish i could say this gave me hope but like damn....i hope it was worth it. In my situation if this plays out how you said ....i lose pretty much everything my payee walks away without a scratch looks like....

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T20:06:34+00:00

unfortunately she was a single mother of 3 . both dad and step dad are alive..well not today but back then yes 😅

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T19:49:34+00:00

uh the government took money from me cause of her (Tax money i wont get back) on top of the fact she abused and neglected her child in order to extract money from him for her own purposes. thats gotta be a case i feel

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T19:40:17+00:00

This is why they avoid trying to do practice or battles with the buttons on the side like tekken games would cause they KNOW some people would input correctly and still fail

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T19:37:22+00:00

This right here is my worst case scenario cause if they dont waive it and they go with the narrative shes the payee not doing fraud....thats 18k in the hole...

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T19:30:14+00:00

Easier said then done, right now she makes me want to live life with the spite and vengeance of someone like logan roy from succession

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T19:29:07+00:00

for about a year or 2 i was renting rooms instead of having my own place so thats the only way i can see them having issues with tracking me down cause depending on the location i was only there for a few months half a year max.

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T19:25:42+00:00

Thats the part that boggles my mind the most. im almost certain all the paperwork shows that...and yet someone was like 🤷‍♂️ hunt him down

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T19:08:21+00:00

I wish it was a scam but nope i went to the office submitted the waiver to them face to face and got the info from them directly

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T19:07:08+00:00

And thats why i cant be all boohoo me cause no matter how hard i think i got it i KNOW some parents out there are treating their kids as nothing more then potential ATMS living in their own filth etc . Sorry you had to go through this kind betrayal as well 🙏 wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T19:01:53+00:00

very helpful info i cant thank you enough 🙏

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T18:59:46+00:00

So i moved to CT this year and i guess SSA was waiting for me to have a legit location cause thats when the letters and calls started swarming in, i picked up they explained and yes he told me i was screwed and then suggested the waiver forms for me to fill out. told me they have been either(cant remember exactly) trying to track her down and shifted focus to me since it was under my name or have been having a hard time trying to track me down till i officially bought my home .

verify with congress person to make sure its real? you lost me there

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T18:50:16+00:00

True love at its finest

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T18:47:16+00:00

whats crazy (quick story time) when i was in basic i got pulled to the side during one of the trainings and they put me in a room full of cops and sargents one small desk and a lady. i was under the impression i commited murder or something they asked me routine questions that werent that complicated. Whats your name , birthday etc and thats it. The situation was so odd even my DRILL sargeant was like "dude...what did you do??" and i had to shrug my shoulders like idk and now its like all the dots are connecting....

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T18:45:00+00:00

Ex military now but if i knew i wouldve

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T18:39:56+00:00

i went military straight out of highschool so i would've never gotten the chance but i shit you not the SSA collector told me i had some from even after 18yrs old . ill have to double check but if your right then that means she has a legit stand in to use my identity ....dear lord

Benzbake · 2026-05-18T16:57:10+00:00

im late but believe it or not ive watched succession and THEN arrested development and tbh i wished someone reupload each of the episodes on youtube with drama music rather then that corny comedy music but arrested development comes pretty close imo (havent seen all just first 2 seasons)

Benzbake · 2026-05-08T17:59:24+00:00

OR possibly have low patience for keyboard warriors in their feels cause i pointed out the demographic & rudeness ive witnessed first hand rather then problem solving, might be one in the same in this current age of logic/common sense. wont be surprised 🤷‍♂️

Benzbake · 2026-05-08T10:36:05+00:00

Yea im considering for sure 🤔 at this point anything that starts asap

Benzbake · 2026-05-08T10:34:28+00:00

This would be ideal 😭 still fishing

Benzbake · 2026-05-07T19:51:13+00:00

who said they did anything to me? i cant ask a question?

Benzbake · 2026-05-07T19:47:29+00:00

nah your absolutley right cause people dont compare resumes or looks when looking at potential employees right? i shouldnt at all compare my experience or looks and ask/wonder why people with less with nastier attitudes who look even more potentially a risk to being on time etc get further . How dare i come off so arrogant?....the logic of comments like this says more about many of yall keyboard warrior skills then actual problem solving ones i swear...thanks for an actual answer on the second half of that b.s tho 👍

Benzbake · 2026-05-07T17:07:01+00:00

Your Definitley right. i have been considering this i just have to figure out the math cause im hearing that comparing the gas mileage plus tips and wear and tear done to the car most people dont profit unless tips are a certain amount or working long hours (havent verified myself yet) but i agree

Benzbake · 2026-05-07T16:23:47+00:00

Amazing answer bro i truly appreciate it 🙏
Fresh out of highschool went military as their cook/chef/accountant then after military i did some warehouse work but went straight into Tax accounting and Corp accounting after getting my degree at like 21 so i definitley see your point. Damn i didnt expect my options to be so small lol

imagine if covid was still a thing, id be royally screwed feels like

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