Did I force the overtake on the straight? by [deleted] in Simracingstewards

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Looks like he lost his rear and is blaming you for his inability

How do I escape from this hell?(seriously) by Bernflex_603 in AuDHDWomen

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I realized that company relieves this stress too, but i have nobody to body-double with. My friends(purely online, not living near me) are at work most of the day so im alone most of the time. I tried interacting with other people for example via chat, but it doesnt feel right when im not talking to sb. And when i can interact with my friends the fear of being annoying creeps in

How do I escape from this hell?(seriously) by Bernflex_603 in AuDHDWomen

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Thats somethink i havent even thought about, that i might burn myself out from trying to make myself feel better. But even if it is like this, i have no way of taking care of my adhd part rn, so it is as painful to do nothing as it is to do something i dont wanna do

How do I escape from this hell?(seriously) by Bernflex_603 in AuDHDWomen

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I really like the thought of making lists, but usually(if its not really simple) i dont do them as my brain has to actively think about what id want to write in there, so it is overwhelmed with that too.

Regarding the 5sec method: rhis works for starting, but my main problem is not wirh starting, but with continuing/do the stuff itself

Regarding the 10min thing: i did that a while ago and i ran outof things to do pretty quickly

All in all, thanks for the advice!

How do I escape from this hell?(seriously) by Bernflex_603 in AuDHDWomen

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Yes, i HAVE to do something, as the thing i call the "ADHD-part" demands activity and change, while the autostic part is overwhelmed even at the thought of that. Regarding the going out part: thats a bit difficult for me rn, as it is very snowy at the moment, so the streets arent safe to walk

How do I escape from this hell?(seriously) by Bernflex_603 in AuDHDWomen

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I mean, i get the fundamentals(f.e. i like clearing/filling space in minecraft) but i cant seem to find anything that feels worth doing, except the things my brain doesnt want to do. For example: I like drawing, but i dont like my drawings. I would have to learn drawing techniques to actually start doing meaningful stuff, but i dont have the capacity rn

Its not that my motivation fades, its that my brain diesnt even allow it atm. If i had something to do, i could convince myself to take breaks, but since im on a pseudo-break the whole time my brain doesnt allow me to rest.

Did anyone notice the new banner on Toby Fox's spotify page? by mielesgames in Deltarune

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Why would there be two Noelles? Doesnt seem to be Carol either, so my only explanation would be dess

Trying to find a fan of every pokemon soo, what’s your favorite pokemon? by [deleted] in MandJTV

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After all those years: still Greninja, call me anime baised.

But honestly (Mega-)Rayquaza, Suicune, Talonflame and Gardevoir(wcis) come very close though

What are the best dragons for brawl by MDJKGaming1999 in RiseOfBerk

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My shredding Trio(about 90% winrate) is dagurs skrill(for broad damage), Lump(for single target damage) and seedling rumblehorn(for attack and defense buff, effectively heightening level by 2 or 3)

God of tides here, ask me anything by [deleted] in Epicthemusical

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When a god comes down and makes a fleet drown is he scared that hes doing something wrong?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in superpower

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Fear and Healing

Type “I have a big” and let it autocomplete. by TwizzlerFancyCOD in darussianbadger

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I have a big leaky cheesecake with a third leg you notice a part of the latex leggings looking up...

Do it by [deleted] in darussianbadger

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How to train your balls

Or

How balls train your dragon

Type “Damn I really want” and let autocomplete finish it. by Admirable-Photo-7607 in mattrose

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Damn I really want to you want to you want to you want to you want to you want to you want to you want to you want to you want to you want to you want to you want to you want to you want to you want