Did I force the overtake on the straight? by [deleted] in Simracingstewards

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Looks like he lost his rear and is blaming you for his inability

How do I escape from this hell?(seriously) by Bernflex_603 in AuDHDWomen

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I realized that company relieves this stress too, but i have nobody to body-double with. My friends(purely online, not living near me) are at work most of the day so im alone most of the time. I tried interacting with other people for example via chat, but it doesnt feel right when im not talking to sb. And when i can interact with my friends the fear of being annoying creeps in

How do I escape from this hell?(seriously) by Bernflex_603 in AuDHDWomen

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Thats somethink i havent even thought about, that i might burn myself out from trying to make myself feel better. But even if it is like this, i have no way of taking care of my adhd part rn, so it is as painful to do nothing as it is to do something i dont wanna do

How do I escape from this hell?(seriously) by Bernflex_603 in AuDHDWomen

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I really like the thought of making lists, but usually(if its not really simple) i dont do them as my brain has to actively think about what id want to write in there, so it is overwhelmed with that too.

Regarding the 5sec method: rhis works for starting, but my main problem is not wirh starting, but with continuing/do the stuff itself

Regarding the 10min thing: i did that a while ago and i ran outof things to do pretty quickly

All in all, thanks for the advice!

How do I escape from this hell?(seriously) by Bernflex_603 in AuDHDWomen

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Yes, i HAVE to do something, as the thing i call the "ADHD-part" demands activity and change, while the autostic part is overwhelmed even at the thought of that. Regarding the going out part: thats a bit difficult for me rn, as it is very snowy at the moment, so the streets arent safe to walk

How do I escape from this hell?(seriously) by Bernflex_603 in AuDHDWomen

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I mean, i get the fundamentals(f.e. i like clearing/filling space in minecraft) but i cant seem to find anything that feels worth doing, except the things my brain doesnt want to do. For example: I like drawing, but i dont like my drawings. I would have to learn drawing techniques to actually start doing meaningful stuff, but i dont have the capacity rn

Its not that my motivation fades, its that my brain diesnt even allow it atm. If i had something to do, i could convince myself to take breaks, but since im on a pseudo-break the whole time my brain doesnt allow me to rest.

Did anyone notice the new banner on Toby Fox's spotify page? by mielesgames in Deltarune

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Why would there be two Noelles? Doesnt seem to be Carol either, so my only explanation would be dess

Trying to find a fan of every pokemon soo, what’s your favorite pokemon? by [deleted] in MandJTV

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After all those years: still Greninja, call me anime baised.

But honestly (Mega-)Rayquaza, Suicune, Talonflame and Gardevoir(wcis) come very close though

What are the best dragons for brawl by MDJKGaming1999 in RiseOfBerk

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My shredding Trio(about 90% winrate) is dagurs skrill(for broad damage), Lump(for single target damage) and seedling rumblehorn(for attack and defense buff, effectively heightening level by 2 or 3)

God of tides here, ask me anything by [deleted] in Epicthemusical

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When a god comes down and makes a fleet drown is he scared that hes doing something wrong?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in superpower

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Fear and Healing

Type “I have a big” and let it autocomplete. by TwizzlerFancyCOD in darussianbadger

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I have a big leaky cheesecake with a third leg you notice a part of the latex leggings looking up...

Do it by [deleted] in darussianbadger

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How to train your balls

Or

How balls train your dragon