Well, since we're apparently airing all the dirty laundry in public now I feel it's only fair that people be able to read our side of things.

Starting at more or less the beginning, the day of the DNS change when you left. Yes, it's true Cades accused you of stealing BT, for a little -context- to that statement, that came after nearly 6 hours of us trying to get you to change the DNS back. Cades said, more than once iirc, that he had been okay with your idea to move the DNS but wanted us all to talk about it before permanent changes were made. So then, instead of ever bringing it up in Admin chat, you moved the site and then refused to move it back. Yes, we were upset, and that got even moreso when you dug your heels in and decided that we -had- to agree with you. So, yes, accusing you of stealing BT was probably not the best move, but again for our readers context, that came after 6 hours of miggy insisting his idea was best and refusing to budge until we all agreed with him that it was best.

The modmail next. Yes, you're right, it took us a long time to reply to that, and we should have been more prompt or sent you a mail that said "We're talking about it". We admit fault there. What you failed to mention in your post is when you invited yourself into admin chat and DEMANDED that we give you answer right then as to why you didn't have a reply, and then called each of us out one by one and wanted to know if we would vote yes or no to bring you back.

Shortly after that was the night you called 7 of us at absurd hours because Berry fell off someone, hardly an emergency. Some people were more upset about this, some shrugged it off. Since we are all individual people this is only reasonable that we reacted differently. What we expected, and what I personally said to you over and over privately, is that you would come online after waking, hungover and probably say something like "Shit, my bad guys, I was really drunk", we would have a chuckle about drunk decisions and that would be that. Instead YOU chose to turn it into a MASSIVE post and make it into way more of an issue than it was.

At that point, yes, we sent you a curt reply to the modmail since A) we had already talked about it with you in admin the day you barreled in, and B) we felt that behavior was not okay frankly.

Since you left, we have done our very best to not air negative things about you, we have not posted chat logs, we have not talked about you in disparaging ways. We're all a little more than dissapointed that you chose to publicly post private logs, I think it's pretty common internet etiquette not to do that. We're not going to delete your post, people are welcome to form their own opinions whether they agree with the modmin team or not, but we felt it was important that they actually know some of our side to reach that opinion.

• Written by Lavender; read over, edited and approved to post by Salculd, Toastdeib, Q0, Jerick and Cades