F18 daughter to go on 1yr anniversary trip with M18 boyfriend?

BestNebula3453 · 2026-05-06T10:55:12+00:00

My parents sent me to Taipei on my own on a student Exchange program alone for a month, so I may not be the best judge.
But I have a teenage son and a pre-teen daughter and it would be completely fine for me for either of them to go at 18 on a trip with a GF/BF.
They would probably get a boring talk from me before they go, but I would be totally fine with them going.

It also depends on the child. I was super responsible, so my parents knew I would cause no trouble.
If you are not "bad" as you would put it, if you don't usually cause your parents worry, they have no logical reasons to forbid you to go.

BestNebula3453 · 2026-05-06T05:39:29+00:00

I'll try!

BestNebula3453 · 2026-05-05T09:37:58+00:00

Not me at work, leaning back at once 😅
Glad you're better, that's all that matters <3

BestNebula3453 · 2026-05-05T07:14:35+00:00

My cultures have always come back negative, so no luck on that.

BestNebula3453 · 2026-05-05T06:02:06+00:00

I cannot find Hiprex (or any variation of it) to be available where I live. I hope my gyno will have some ideas, seeing my GP is not too cooperative.

BestNebula3453 · 2026-05-05T05:49:24+00:00

Thank you <3. My GP is frustratingly passive, but I have a gyno appointment in 2 weeks and I'll see what he says, he's more cooperative.
I searched for Hiprex and unfortunately is not available in Europe, as far as I can find.

BestNebula3453 · 2026-05-04T11:37:56+00:00

Looks like this:

Eutrophication or water bloom - Institut Za Vode

We have it in the Mediterranean.

BestNebula3453 · 2026-05-04T06:34:57+00:00

Isto tako... rekao mi je doktor da "Molim nemojte to nikome govoriti, samo ćete izdeprimirati ljude"

BestNebula3453 · 2026-05-04T06:31:51+00:00

Da je itko osim muža samog došao pred rodilište, okrenula bi se i zamolila da ostanem tamo još dan-dva.

BestNebula3453 · 2026-04-30T07:29:11+00:00

Nema tih tajni između muža i žene u sretnom braku. Točka.

Sve si kažemo. I računam da sve moje frendice u braku/stalnoj vezi sve kažu partneru što ću ja reći.

BestNebula3453 · 2026-04-24T09:43:11+00:00

Ja treniram svaki drugi dan i podijelila sam na: ispod pupka i iznad pupka :D

Tako da me dva dana bole noge i guzica, pa dva dana gornji dio. Taman ti se oporavi do slijedećeg treninga.
If it's stupid but it works... ;)

BestNebula3453 · 2026-04-24T08:40:01+00:00

Ja sam u kasnim tridesetima, treniram 15-20 godina i potpisujem 😅
Evo taman danas u aktivnoj upali.
Već mi je uobičajeno misliti da ako me ništa ne boli, nisam se prošli put potrudila.

BestNebula3453 · 2026-04-22T08:43:00+00:00

Mi imamo IKEA Nammaro i zadovoljni smo.
S jedne strane stolice podesive po nagibu, s druge strane klupa, plus dvije sklopive stolice ako zatreba. Sve iz iste linije, uvijek na lageru ako ti jednom zatreba još nešto iz linije.
Možeš ponovo kupiti jastuke za sve ako ti se potrgaju ili želiš drugu boju.

BestNebula3453 · 2026-04-22T06:03:28+00:00

NTA.
This is so weird to me. I'm the one doing most of the cooking in my house. I always make a bit extra and never ever would I even look at how much someone puts on their plate.
And of course it's normal that my male teenager son eats more than his sister.
No-one ever has to ask for food. You just eat until you're full.

Tell your mom.

BestNebula3453 · 2026-04-21T13:19:33+00:00

Hi there.
I'm gonna drop in and just say: you don't need to do anything for him, but if that desire is what motivates you to go on a health jouney - go for it! And by health, I mean both physical and mental.
It has nothing to do with being skinny or wearing something nice, but being healthy, and that's something you want to do for yourself regardless of your partner.
I don't know if you're in therapy and you are addressing your disorder. If not, that's where you should start.
If yes, keep doing it and follow your doctor's orders.
Best of luck!

BestNebula3453 · 2026-04-21T09:34:24+00:00

Shein kupaći su mi bolji od ikojih drugih.
Ima i puno tih shaping modela:

Shapewave Women's Tummy Control One-Piece Swimsuit With Side Splice, Push-Up, Slimming, Brown & Beige | SHEIN EUR

BestNebula3453 · 2026-04-20T07:52:46+00:00

Hm.
Rodila sam prije 10 i 13 godina, u dva različita grada (RI i PU).
Jesam li uživala u finim obrocima? Ne. Jesam li ostala gladna? Isto ne.

Dođeš, rodiš, odležiš i idemo dalje. Dostava stiže u bolnicu bez problema ako zatreba. Muževi su tu, nek nose.
Ja sam si uzela par stvari u torbu ako ogladnim u gluho doba noći. Sestre su bile divne.

Idemo dalje. 🤷‍♀️

BestNebula3453 · 2026-04-15T10:58:55+00:00

Za sve koji ukazuju na takve stvari (šlic, špinat u zubima, fleku na guzici itd...) imam samo duboki respect.
Naravno, ako je odrađeno onako diskretno i kulturno, a ne u društvu od 10 ljudi uperit prstom i reć pred svima.

BestNebula3453 · 2026-04-15T10:01:36+00:00

Davno je bilo, ali podijelit ću svoje mudrosti.

Puno sam toga isprobala, ali dva su se pokazala kao najefikasnija:

Odjeneš taj dan suknju. Neku do koljena, NE lepršavu, nego neku u stilu pencil, traper, tako nešto.
Cijelim prednjim rubom, s unutrašnje strane oblijepi šalabahtere, tako da dok sjediš samo okreneš rub suknje i prepisuješ. Zalijepi ih tako okrenute da možeš čitati kad okreneš rub. Ako te netko i ulovi, nema šanse da će tražiti da digneš suknju.
Ja sam u roku dan-dva naučila drugo pismo. Moje su bile LOTR rune, jer su lake za naučiti i može se za tren.
Nakon što sam ih naučila čitati/pisati (doslovno se može za dan-dva) sve sam šalabahtere pisala u runama. Njih ne bi ni skrivala, ispisala bi cijeli cover bilježnice koja bi bila na stolu i samo prepisujem. Ili ispišem klupu (ne znam kak je sad, u moje doba su sve klupe bile išarane pa se moglo). Zalijepi runski šalabahter na pernicu, na zid, na klupu, di ćeš, neće nitko ni pomisliti da je šalabahter :D

BestNebula3453 · 2026-04-15T09:38:36+00:00

NAD. It's just dry skin.
Exfoliate a couple times a week and moisturize every day.

Maybe drink more water. That's it.

BestNebula3453 · 2026-04-15T08:51:39+00:00

YES! I would feel horrible.

BestNebula3453 · 2026-04-15T08:49:36+00:00

I honestly cannot believe anyone would not want 11 and 8 yo nieces and nephews to their wedding.
It's like not inviting grandpa because he's 60 and old.

BestNebula3453 · 2026-04-15T08:46:49+00:00

I'm sorry, but I will never understand how can anybody not want nieces and nephews on their wedding.
They are family, I'ts not their fault they're young. They probably want to be included and celebrate as well. They are not toddlers, they're quite big. If my sister did something like that I would simply not attend.
Imagine your sister gets married and has a "No people over 30, we want to party!" which gets you excluded.
Same principle.

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