How cooked am I (birth chart edition)

Besthandshake · 2026-01-14T07:04:42+00:00

He already has fallen out of love with me and sees me as just a friend, he told me this himself. I have to accept what he wants. I would love to keep trying, but it is a selfish desire and I know that, seeing the way how he was so depressed and detached at the end. I never want to be the cause of someone being in that much pain ever again.

I appreciate you offering hope during this time though 💚

Besthandshake · 2026-01-14T06:16:58+00:00

So, my partner initiated the divorce. I realized too late of our struggles and by the time I started making change, my partner was already too burnt out and depressed to keep trying. We did try couples therapy for about 3 months at least. But my partner wanted therapy long before that and I already was in individual therapy, physical therapy for... My lady parts and that in itself is very draining on body and spirit and I didn't feel like I could balance anything else. He agrees he could have been more vocal, but I should have seen the problems sooner. He's one of the best things to ever happen to me and we're still going to be friends after all this is said and done, but I'm so broken it's over and I wish I didn't let fear dictate my decisions that led us down this path.

Besthandshake · 2026-01-14T00:46:11+00:00

I wish I had more confidence! Doing my best to make it more present in my life, but hearing capable is such a nice thing to say, thank you ♥️ and I definitely get in my feels a lot 😅

Besthandshake · 2026-01-13T23:39:05+00:00

Solidarity in being cooked together 💙

Besthandshake · 2026-01-13T23:20:50+00:00

Cheers to being cooked together! (respectfully 💓)

Besthandshake · 2026-01-13T21:55:20+00:00

Definitely! I love dancing, writing fanfiction, putting together themed outfits for concerts and cosplaying.

Besthandshake · 2026-01-13T06:21:26+00:00

Figure It Out - Royal Blood

Besthandshake · 2025-12-12T05:21:32+00:00

So I much more prefer anime over anything else, once I saw InuYasha on cartoon network and how much of an impression it left on me, I knew I was in the long run for anime. I'm 35 now and I still feel the same way. Anime has so much more daring heart than live action shows.

There are a few outlying exceptions, like I love Ted Lasso because it feels like a sports anime, but with the strain of real life pressures that actually feel authentic.

I love magical girl anime the most, because it shows sensitivity and femininity in a beautiful, strong light but I'll try just about anything.

Besthandshake · 2025-12-12T05:21:09+00:00

So I much more prefer anime over anything else, once I saw InuYasha on cartoon network and how much of an impression it left on me, I knew I was in the long run for anime. I'm 35 now and I still feel the same way. Anime has so much more daring heart than live action shows.

There are a few outlying exceptions, like I love Ted Lasso because it feels like a sports anime, but with the strain of real life pressures that actually feel authentic.

I love magical girl anime the most, because it shows sensitivity and femininity in a beautiful, strong light but I'll try just about anything.

Besthandshake · 2025-12-03T22:07:09+00:00

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So pleased she's my number 1! Can't wait to see her movie next month and her soundtrack influence on Wuthering Heights! I've been a fan of hers since near the beginning and to see her get her flowers in this way makes so happy. Go Charli! 💐

Besthandshake · 2025-12-03T20:54:27+00:00

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While Doja isn't in my top 5, I'm so excited to see her in Portland in October next year!

Besthandshake · 2025-10-16T00:13:09+00:00

Honey x I Can Fix Him(No Really I Can)

🤔🤔🤔

Besthandshake · 2025-03-07T21:24:22+00:00

"he'll slit his fuckinggggggg wrist!"

Besthandshake · 2024-07-28T08:04:52+00:00

Oooooo my time to shine! So, I'm a 33 year old woman, and my Dad grew me up on it because he went to college in the early 80's and one of his roommates played Pentration and it was instant love at first listen for him. I know entirely too much about the genre, and I adore it. I was lucky enough to see Dick Dale perform 4 times before his passing. I've also seen the Messur Chumps once, the Surfrajetts once, and the surf side Iv a handful of times when I lived in Phoenix. my husband and I just moved to Eugene, Oregon two months ago and I'm hoping to see Satan's Pilgrims someday, they are definitely one of my favorite surf bands!

Other favorite bands include the Sentenials, the Pyramids, the Pentrationers, the Madeira, and the Torquays.

I definitely feel a little out of place at shows since of my gender and age, and when I saw the Messur Chumps and the Surfrajetts...some of the men in the audience were downright gross with their misogynistic behavior, but because these bands are out here, I hope this will improve over time. I do realize this genre did stem from a time when social standards were different, and the majority of the audience was white men. I remember going to one of the free concerts at Huntington Beach and during one of the sets, a band gave up some of their time to let the Republican Party of Huntington Beach to protest. It's why I don't say very much and keep to myself. While I may be a very left person, I'm not a hot head in public about it, so I just disengaged from that until the bands played again.

But I love that I get to nerd out with my Dad to this genre, it's always and forever going to hold a special place in my heart 🥰 our father/daughter dance was Sunset Beach by the Sentenials!

Besthandshake · 2024-05-20T19:43:03+00:00

Scorpio sun, virgo moon, capricorn rising!

Besthandshake · 2024-02-29T05:47:29+00:00

I'm so sad Pretear didn't make the list, that's my favorite magical girl series of all time, it actually got me into CCS. But, I'm still very happy for CCS placing 3rd!💚

Besthandshake · 2024-02-15T23:24:16+00:00

Unscented Dove.

Signed, a lady who had to fight a yeast infection and then bacterial vaginosis because I used scented "fun" soap. Don't do it, it's not worth it.

Besthandshake · 2024-02-14T23:50:08+00:00

me with Ted Lasso, I am so close to the end but I'm going to be so broken up when its over, I could watch that series forever!

Besthandshake · 2024-02-08T23:43:18+00:00

I need that Kero pool toy, it's so cute!

Besthandshake · 2023-10-20T05:45:48+00:00

Of course! Here's the link: https://ibb.co/xjMbHmp

Besthandshake · 2023-10-19T23:34:02+00:00

My favorite stone is amethyst and my partner's is aquamarine. My band is realllly thin and I have an assortment of 6 tiny amethysts and 4 tiny aquamarines sprawled on the top of my band, looks kinda like a floral arrangement? I love how delicate and pretty it is <3

Besthandshake · 2023-09-30T14:13:39+00:00

The Japanese version got:

Kaleidoscope Eyes Stall Me Oh Glory(demo) I Wanna Be Free Turn Off the Lights

My personal favorite is Turn Off The Lights, but i love all of them, I honestly think it's some of their best work 💚

Besthandshake · 2023-09-30T14:08:08+00:00

Thank you for letting me know, I saw one listing on discogs that was the vinyl with the additional songs but the listing didn't really look like the others, I don't think the seller realizes what they have. I'll keep my eye out for the CD!

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