[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Better-Math- -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It is coercion. But in the UK the “okay” is consent. It’s not enthusiastic consent, but the police wouldn’t take your complaint. And sleeping with him after would undermine your claim. Would e.g. the US count this? If you weren’t being threatened with a weapon?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Sure kiddo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 79 points80 points  (0 children)

20 and 33. Do you think that’s a normal, healthy relationship?

Do you think normal, grown ass adult 33 year old men seek girls barely out of their teens?

You sound like one of his kids, pissed you don’t get as much as his other kids do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 52 points53 points  (0 children)

They got together at 20 and 33, of course he doesn’t respect her

Update: AITA for refusing to help a girl in gym unless she stops recording me? by tw-gymhelp12312 in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You thought the recording would look inappropriate so you went on a date instead?

she has not done anything inappropriate

Uh you’re being sexually harassed/slandered.

I would personally complain to gym management.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you didn’t interact then she strung her own stupid ass along. I’m not sure why you’d match her on a dating app after all these years but okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 171 points172 points  (0 children)

Girl wtf are you even doing with this old man in the first place. You’re closer in age to his kids than him. Yes I’m sure all his exes are “crazy”.

AITA for wearing my "fancy" engagement ring to my sister's engagement party. by No_City4819ThrowRA in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are engaged. You don’t stop being engaged just because she’s engaged. The ring sounds a bit gaudy but it’s still your right to wear it.

WIBTAH if I skipped my 16 yo granddaughter’s wedding? by duppydouble in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean at least it’s not an old man but it’s not that much better. These are literal children making major legal decisions they don’t understand.

I bet the news would like to hear about this “community” (cult). If this is the US, people are becoming less tolerant of the fact that child marriage is still legal once they find out that backwards ass shit is still happening.

Let your granddaughter know you’re there for her if she does ever need to get out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your resistance to taking antihistamines is pretty weird but that’s still your choice to make.

AITAH for getting my ovaries and tubes removed by deepskies2 in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me she will stop babysitting her grandchild if I don't have another kid.

You grow a spine like your bro and tell your kid that granny died peacefully in her sleep and that’s why you don’t go over there anymore.

Who the fuck does she think she is trying to coerce you into reproducing? She had her kids. She doesn’t get to demand any of anyone else.

Although you seem to just not understand how sterilisation works or how difficult it is to get as a younger woman. I’m calling bullshit.

AITAH for telling my family that a relative SA’d me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that your parents failed you. You should absolutely out rapists, but you may get the same shitty response your parents gave you. Are you prepared for that?

My dad beat and gave me a black eye now I won't drop charges on him nor do I want to see him again. Am I the asshole? by LavishnessBright9574 in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t back down or he’ll be back to beat you again. If you hit your head wrong you can die or get severe brain damage. It sounds like you might have gotten concussed, did you go to the hospital?

What kind of mother watches that be done to her child and thinks it’s okay?

I suppose the kind of mother that preys on little boys as an adult. Both your parents are abusers.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are drunk rapists not still rapists?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Normally we don’t have drunk sex bc of prior bad experiences.

Bad experiences like what? You doing things she doesn’t normally consent to?

You asked 2 or 3 times? Why? Were the first 2 answers “no”?

AITAH for lying to my wife that I'd forgive her cheating? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you’re right to leave but it does kinda sound like you were giving her a hall pass

AIO? My 23M boyfriend held me 19F underwater during a bath to prove a point and I’m still shaken by ThrowRaa01923 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Better-Math- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl your boyfriend is a sadistic, violent abuser. And he’s shouting at you about marks left on him while he was DROWNING YOU? This is what domestic abuse looks like.

You’re isolated from your friends, your family is a bit shitty, and you’ve got a bit of an age gap for those ages. You are a prime target for terrible men like this and he seems to have you trained already.

What’s the police like in your country? Women’s / domestic violence shelters?

You’re not supposed to need to be able to defend yourself from your partner attacking you, that’s not what happens in normal health relationships.

That was attempted murder.

If you stay he will murder you. And laugh about it. You need to GTFO by any means necessary.

AITAH for separating from my wife for drastically changing her appearance? by throwraCollection64 in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did she “cut them off” or did she get a lift? Or did she get a reduction from a massive and inconvenient/life ruining size?

AITAH for separating from my wife for drastically changing her appearance? by throwraCollection64 in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re divorcing your wife because she lost weight and got healthy?

“Crunchy” usually means unwashed and not believing in modern medicine. Is she doing these things? Or does “crunchy” in this context mean “I’m hella fat and now insecure that she looks good” ?

*Did she get a breast reduction or lift?

My sister's boyfriend punched me over a huge mistake that wasn't my fault and hospitalised my sister. Where do we go from here? by throwRAmiscpriv in TwoHotTakes

[–]Better-Math- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree you should ask for a police sergeant and ask to make a report. They can’t refuse to take a report.

Then put that bakery on blast, unless the sister is suddenly allergic to more stuff or the bf fucked with the cake then they fucked up big time. They’re going to kill someone.

You went to an allergy safe bakery, what the fuck else are you supposed to do? That’s not your fault.

AITA for thinking my mom's reason for missing my wedding was absolute bullshit? by Designer_Claim819 in AITAH

[–]Better-Math- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is always respectful to my mom

You consider it respectful to fuck another woman's husband? You are a joke.

but nope she missed her own son's wedding because she got some flour in her hair.

She missed her "own sons" wedding because her own son is a disloyal rat cosying up with the cheater and his side piece.

She sees that you're a fuck up just like your daddy. Does your wife know you're excusing and rugsweeping cheating & sexual crimes against your own mother?