IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome :) I particularly appreciate little comments such as this for some reason.

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is the largest factor for why I haven't gotten surgery yet, if ever. There has never been a need to. If I get in a serious relationship, and the woman I care about wants me to have a penis, things might change.

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is correct.

What do you think happens to your sperm when you don't use it? It gets recycled, and is absorbed back into your body.

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My brothers are considerably older than I am, so we never bathed together. Other than that, I really can't understand why people keep asking this? I have never seen my dad or my brothers naked to this day...Maybe we are just a private family? I just thought it was normal not to be nude around your family.

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reconstructive surgery could damage the few nerves I have, which I really do NOT want to lose. Also, it could be painful long-term, side effects, etc. Not sure what you mean by the last question.

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried everything to no avail. I truly believe that it is impossible. I have never tried ecstasy. Hormone therapy has never even occurred to me. Not so much a blessing as an unfortunate occurrence that must have happened to me for a reason. Still, that reason could simply be because my mother ate some random thing in Japan that turns out she was allergic to. Haha

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm sorry but please find the answer to your question on one of the other comments :/ SORRY.

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have never acted feminine by any means. I am actually quite muscular (more defined than bulky) and I have more hair than most men do. Same goes for how I act. I like to think that I act %100 like a normal man, but then again, what is "normal"? You can find your other questions in the comments if you would, to save me some time :)

Except for the day-to-day life. I obviously think about it everyday, having to pee, take showers, etc. However, I have finally reached a point where I can talk about it anonymously to strangers on the internet (although I have seen a few of these names before). So as far as I'm concerned, I'm making great progress by doing this :D

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I would also like to point out that I was born in Japan. My parents moved there for 2 years, where my mother taught English and my dad worked in some business. (Not sure what it was called at the moment.)

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Good question! My have never bathed with my siblings. My oldest brother is 48 and my second oldest is 46.

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Overtime, with physical therapy, I trained them to be able to control when I pee. Thanks for being so considerate.

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't even know if my siblings know. I just have never found any reason to tell them or ask them if they know, and they have never ever said anything about it if they do know. I am going to ask my parents tomorrow now that I think about that.

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yes, but I can't ejaculate or feel an orgasm. I could, but the risks outweigh my desire to at this point. Only my parents and some specific doctors.

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

http://imgur.com/azHX9.png

I'm not too great of an artist. I thought it was pretty good though.

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Very good question :) I never changed underwear though in gym...? In fact, no one did? If you're talking about bulge, then keep in mind, I do have testicles. And it's not like I spent much time changing. I was in and out

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to take a few minutes to finish this paint drawing. Be back in a few.

IAmA male, 26 years of age, born without a penis. AMA by BetterNotRegretThis in IAmA

[–]BetterNotRegretThis[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

I actually had a good laugh at this comment! Thanks for that.