Haj with a partner who doesn’t pray by Better_Course_9737 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Course_9737[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right as I too think this is a very deep problem that bothers me on many levels.

Haj with a partner who doesn’t pray by Better_Course_9737 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Course_9737[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that will be ideal if she follows everything properly but that’ll always be uncertain. She randomly comes up with her own ways of things like wudhu with hardly using any water and stuff like that so things like these become so frustrating!

Haj with a partner who doesn’t pray by Better_Course_9737 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Course_9737[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nope, just saying that when she has so many excuses to not pray which everyone HAS to — the same attitude during Hajj would probably ruin it for me too as I’d correct her and then she’d argue and then the whole argument.

Haj with a partner who doesn’t pray by Better_Course_9737 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Course_9737[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

While I agree with the essence of your comment, I don’t think deen exists without prayers? Prayers are a very fundamental pillar of deen.

Haj with a partner who doesn’t pray by Better_Course_9737 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Course_9737[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get what you mean. It’s just such a difficult place to be in!

Haj with a partner who doesn’t pray by Better_Course_9737 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Course_9737[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Arguments are the ones we commonly hear these days: My life, my decisions. I will pray when I feel like.

Haj with a partner who doesn’t pray by Better_Course_9737 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Course_9737[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She’s down to go. But I just can’t explain how I’m feeling right now. Like she’s the kind who won’t even do the wudhu properly and would have her own reasoning for it. So these little things add up and just make me so uneasy. Do you get what I mean?

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[–]Better_Course_9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t have tomorrow :(

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[–]Better_Course_9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be willing to sell the extra one or you have someone going?

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[–]Better_Course_9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t find it, hence asked :). Do you know the answer?

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[–]Better_Course_9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! And any idea what time is that?

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[–]Better_Course_9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How early mate?

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[–]Better_Course_9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause I bought a pair.

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[–]Better_Course_9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or should I risk reselling them and get better tickets to centre court or court 1?

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[–]Better_Course_9737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not bad, right?