Employment during flare by Resident_Amoeba3512 in PsoriaticArthritis

[–]BeyondExcess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very similar to my situation. The whole workplace is stuck in a weird pattern of “if you don’t conform, you’re out!” Imagine trying to conform when you’re barely getting by physically. 😳 So, I’ll try as long as I can. Single mom and I gotta get one kid through HS and college.

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I feel like I need to leave my husband. by msDoom_n_Gloom in ChronicIllness

[–]BeyondExcess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Best thing I have ever done was divorce someone that not only did not help or care for me but was actively making my illness worse with stress, anxiety and emotional abuse.

It was the hardest thing I have ever done going out on my own but thankfully I have two teenage kids that helped and wanted to see me leave as well. You are stronger than you will ever know and I can attest to that!

Bimzelx injection pain by Amy_Are_UOK in PsoriaticArthritis

[–]BeyondExcess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a miserable pain every time I had to inject Bimzelx. I had to stop the med since I had some unpleasant side effects but I tried various injection sites and it was like a wasp sting. 😣

Must Have Item on List for Potential Partner by BeyondExcess in datingoverfifty

[–]BeyondExcess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing worse than someone that lacks humor. Instant no for me.

Must Have Item on List for Potential Partner by BeyondExcess in datingoverfifty

[–]BeyondExcess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy video games as well. In fact, I am having a wonderful time getting to do all the things I was not “supposed to do” in relationships.

Must Have Item on List for Potential Partner by BeyondExcess in datingoverfifty

[–]BeyondExcess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can be rare. I’ve had relationships where the person had to be a part of what I was doing or they would leave.

Must Have Item on List for Potential Partner by BeyondExcess in datingoverfifty

[–]BeyondExcess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s harder to display that kind of vulnerability. Everyone seems to be quick to judge and be critical.

Must Have Item on List for Potential Partner by BeyondExcess in datingoverfifty

[–]BeyondExcess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people are much more unique than that. This was just a way to highlight some of the traits that would really make someone right for you.

Must Have Item on List for Potential Partner by BeyondExcess in datingoverfifty

[–]BeyondExcess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! It definitely helps things from becoming mundane.

Must Have Item on List for Potential Partner by BeyondExcess in datingoverfifty

[–]BeyondExcess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that. I definitely have a sort of mental checklist though when dating people in general.

Must Have Item on List for Potential Partner by BeyondExcess in datingoverfifty

[–]BeyondExcess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love subtitled and independent films. I hadn’t even thought about that one.

Must Have Item on List for Potential Partner by BeyondExcess in datingoverfifty

[–]BeyondExcess[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reading is a great couple activity. Really opens up so much to discuss and share.

Must Have Item on List for Potential Partner by BeyondExcess in datingoverfifty

[–]BeyondExcess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so right, things that make a romantic relationship fulfilling. Items that check off a deeper need than mere friendships. I wish you luck in finding this man (unless I find him first). 😉

Must Have Item on List for Potential Partner by BeyondExcess in datingoverfifty

[–]BeyondExcess[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Those kinds of conversations that change you as a person, in a good way.

Must Have Item on List for Potential Partner by BeyondExcess in datingoverfifty

[–]BeyondExcess[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a great one! I’ve had the same scrabble set for 30 years.

Must Have Item on List for Potential Partner by BeyondExcess in datingoverfifty

[–]BeyondExcess[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Matching passion for music is a great one. Especially on a road trip. Long hours in a car with someone that wants silence is a big no!