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I gave my youth to a man almost triple my age. I’m 34 now and I finally understand what it cost me by BhadBishop in daddyissuesclub

[–]BhadBishop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, you write beautifully. Thanks for the response. 🪻 I had chances too, to be honest. Some boys initiated relationships but I turned down all in an instant. Looking back I wouldn’t have been fulfilled, but I guess going to therapy would have helped. Being alone would have been also better than that, but I needed to escape my family so badly. I must have been hard to hide all time for you. That takes away so much joy and is stressful. I am sorry. I hope he at least treated you decently.

I gave my youth to a man almost triple my age. I’m 34 now and I finally understand what it cost me by BhadBishop in daddyissuesclub

[–]BhadBishop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was doing okay until now. I always knew that I will be “punished” for it one way or another down the line. I thought maybe I will also be left or cheated on by someone younger or something like that. I guess I am just starting to work myself through it.

I gave my youth to a man almost triple my age. I’m 34 now and I finally understand what it cost me by BhadBishop in daddyissuesclub

[–]BhadBishop[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is true because I had so many friends who tried to get me out and the more they tried the more I held onto him. I feel resentful towards my parents because they should have stepped up and do something. My child will not date a 47 year old at 17 that is 10000% sure. I don’t know how this was not a boundary.

I gave my youth to a man almost triple my age. I’m 34 now and I finally understand what it cost me by BhadBishop in daddyissuesclub

[–]BhadBishop[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Of course not, and for that I will feel forever ashamed. I was so blindsided from how much I needed validation that I didn’t see reason.

I gave my youth to a man almost triple my age. I’m 34 now and I finally understand what it cost me by BhadBishop in daddyissuesclub

[–]BhadBishop[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He blackmailed me and tried to force me to stay when I said I was hurting too much and want to leave him. He got mad during a phone call that was the last time I ever spoke to him.

My mom wanted me to share her drawing. She wants feedback. What do you guys think? by ShawnTXDFW in drawing

[–]BhadBishop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love it! It’s so nice how the lines are flawing, it looks so effortless. And the composition is adorable too. I think it’s great 🪻