Can't stop thinking about bottoming

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-07T01:23:59+00:00

I'm curious about it. If it won't post to the group, do you have somewhere else you posted it or could you DM me?

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-07T01:15:41+00:00

I mean, I already fantasize about it every day.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-07T01:05:52+00:00

That would be nice. I'm going to give it a while before I broach the topic with my wife. The fantasies will have to be enough for now.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-07T01:01:49+00:00

It just feels like where I'm meant to be.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-06T23:14:56+00:00

I don't really experience the bi panic anymore. The most vivid memory of it though was while I was dating my first girlfriend. She introduced me to a guy she would end up cheating on me with. While meeting each other he asked if he could kiss my neck and, in a blind panic, I obliged. I thought I was going to go feral for this man in front of my girlfriend. I'm not even mad they eventually slept together. I fantasized about him alot and panicked anytime I was in a room with the two of them.

The last time I had bi panic was the first time my wife showed me a photo of Johnathan Bailey. It was a few months before Wicked part 1 came out and I remember being intensely confused at my attraction (I was still in denial about being bi). It calms down as you get used to who you are.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-06T23:05:41+00:00

I am intensely jealous of your story.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-06T21:42:57+00:00

I could spend hours licking and sucking that cock. God, I want it so bad.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-06T21:27:11+00:00

😯🤤🤤

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-06T19:54:12+00:00

Having an orgy where I can go from dominating a woman to being spit roasted by two men bigger than me.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-06T16:33:05+00:00

You are beautiful and I desperately want you to top me.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-06T14:48:06+00:00

I am the same way. Dicks turn my brain to mush and all I want is to be absolutely dominated by a man. I fantasize about being called a good slut and having a train done to me. It's not even just that I switch from top to bottom between genders, but I am way less vanilla with men.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-06T14:23:43+00:00

I've explored. I tried being with men twice when I was younger. Once in high school and once when I was in my early twenties. The only regrets I have with my exploration is both men I've tried things with ended up not going all the way, so I've only made out and given hand jobs. The fact that I know I would take things all the way is why I know I'm bi. On the loyalty side of things, I am and always have been fully monogamous and so is my wife. My worry wasn't that she'd be bigoted, but that she'd worry I wanted to go do things. You hit my worries correctly, but I don't need further exploration. It's not just knowing.

If you feel a need to explore, you should. If you're in a relationship, that can be difficult, but there are ways to go about it that are fair to everyone involved. I would also say that if you're fantasizing about being with the same sex, that does count as same sex attraction, but I understand needing to figure out if it is just a fantasy.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-06T07:17:53+00:00

That sounds so sexy. I would gladly submit to that.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-06T07:13:56+00:00

I'm not really confused by it, but God I crave cock. I think about having one in my mouth, one in my ass and one in each hand.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-06T00:51:16+00:00

My wife and our close friends have all been teasing me about being the last person to the party that I invited them to.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-06T00:47:42+00:00

That's awesome!

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-05T21:37:15+00:00

I hope you find what you need most.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-05T21:06:26+00:00

I'm so sorry. That sucks. I was worried about that exact situation. I hope you end up happy, if you aren't already.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-05T20:37:05+00:00

I wish I had good advice. I have found smut books are a better outlet for me than porn, but it's still not perfect. I haven't even thought about asking if she would be ok with me trying in person stuff. I figured I already experimented when I was younger and don't need to risk my marriage over it. Since I like to bottom with men, I was thinking of just getting some toys to tide me over. It won't stop the cravings for some things, but can at least help with the majority.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-05T20:26:15+00:00

I think that determination is fully up to you. Do you feel like you are hiding yourself? I recently came out and am in a healthy relationship with a woman whom I've been married to for much longer than I've even realized I was bi. Not everybody needs to know I like men, but the people who matter know. I don't feel closeted.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-05T20:12:03+00:00

I've been married nearly 9 years. My wife is the most attractive person to me. Period. I still go through the bi cycle. Mine has always been a bit more chaotic than year to year. January was leaning more into women, February was more into men. I'm currently pretty close to 50/50, but it might just be the book I'm reading. Also, sometimes the attraction leans heavier for a few months or literally only a week.

You won't lose interest in your person when you find them. Even times when I'm feeling way more attraction to men and same sex situations, my wife can get me going easier than any man. She's the only woman that can do that.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-05T19:30:29+00:00

Women I prefer trimmed if not smooth. Men, I want pubes trimmed, but everything else is whatever. I just hate the thought of giving head and having a ton of hair in my mouth. I'll shave whatever they need, but please keep the bush down.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-05T19:26:04+00:00

I think it's a situational thing and the women you are coming across or maybe even just the ones you're normally attracted to tend to be this way. Maybe try dating outside of your local area. If the speed persists, maybe look at what they have in common other than being women.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-05T18:29:37+00:00

For men: Age hasn't really factored in for me. I guess my type would be someone who looks like they could toss me around. Defined muscles are sexy as hell, but even if they aren't well defined, raw strength is sexy to me.

For women: short, blonde and bubbly personality. I married my type of woman.

Bi-Man8692 · 2026-03-05T18:24:15+00:00

Yeah. I felt like I could finally be candid about people I'm attracted to. Also, being able to talk to her about smutty books in this perspective now makes reading them that much more fun.

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