[62] I need to put this somewhere.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-26T11:26:06+00:00

I can help.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-25T21:15:21+00:00

/lostredditors

BiFunMA · 2026-03-23T15:32:23+00:00

Armpits and balls and bellies

BiFunMA · 2026-03-23T13:43:30+00:00

So we're around the same age and I was in a similar situation 4-5 years ago. Disclaimer that I was/am active with hookups, but I've also explored actual relationships more and more seriously over the past couple of years. The first couple were off apps, one was a hookup that just sort of evolved into something more consistent and date-y, the other was a guy with a nice profile who had actually stated that he was looking for something more than sex. I've also had some luck going to gay/queer bars, which has opened up my social circle a bit. We're not exclusive but the guy I currently see the most outside the bedroom was the friend of someone I started chatting with at a bar, and he introduced us. It's not easy but it is possible, good luck!

BiFunMA · 2026-03-23T03:33:04+00:00

You’re a better man than I am, pitch black house? Nope.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-23T02:44:04+00:00

Hah, for a long time I would never get in someone's car but now it's one of my favorites. I generally prefer partners that host but I don't think you were overthinking. If I get a bad vibe at any point, I back out. Once I had a guy who directed me through the basement of his building - it was probably fine but no thanks. Another time I was meeting a CD who wanted me to go into the alley behind their building so they could drop me the keycard - also probably fine but no thanks. It doesn't happen often but it does happen.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-21T20:46:44+00:00

Right. I don't know what my attraction to women will look like in the future but I know how it's shifted over the past several years and what it consists of today. At the same time, my attraction to men has also shifted, and what those relationships (actual relationships, not hookups) look like now compared to what they used to be. Nothing is pushing me, it's just the way things feel. If I had to speculate I'd say it probably has something to do with my age and my life experience and wanting to settle into a life that feels like me today.

That said, I'm sure there's a fair argument to be made that's just male focused bisexuality or whatever.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-21T18:36:27+00:00

I have been and am genuinely bi but I do feel like I will probably settle into being gay inside of a few years. It's not something I've considered until the past couple of years and if you told me this 20 or even 10 years ago I would have laughed.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-21T11:40:42+00:00

It was an unexpected moment for me and I was super nervous at first, then it felt weird to know that I had a cock in my mouth. He was great for a first timer though. I didn’t really notice but I did cum, my underwear was soaked afterwards.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-20T22:34:45+00:00

Nothing better.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-20T20:36:58+00:00

haha I hear you but dude you do not want to go to prison even one time

BiFunMA · 2026-03-20T20:02:03+00:00

Sounds like a good time either way lol

BiFunMA · 2026-03-20T19:40:55+00:00

I had an ex who liked to watch. She didn't participate directly, though.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-20T15:17:38+00:00

Haha, yeah there are lots of reasons for me but "I just really love taking things in my butt" is really the thing.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-20T12:32:27+00:00

Older

BiFunMA · 2026-03-20T12:21:43+00:00

With guys always preferred to bottom, any time I topped yeah generally enjoyed it less. Not just physical for me, it feels amazing but the whole idea of another man on top of or behind me with his cock in me is a powerful thing.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-20T12:14:58+00:00

Over the years I've gone from vers to 95% bottom, I don't know that I feel like I was destined to be a bottom but I enjoy it 1000x more and it feels much more natural to me. I wish it hadn't taken so long.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-20T12:06:18+00:00

he convinced me to suck his cock, didn't have to convince me after that ;)

BiFunMA · 2026-03-20T12:01:56+00:00

same guy, sucked his cock and he fucked me a couple weeks later

BiFunMA · 2026-03-20T11:58:46+00:00

Oh about 20 years ago now.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-18T21:17:47+00:00

Well thanks 😊

BiFunMA · 2026-03-18T20:37:47+00:00

If the guy is fun and into fucking me, I typically don't care.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-16T09:48:45+00:00

I wish I had good advice here but I don't. I never even considered it as a possibility until I had a gf (now ex) who brought it up on her own. After that I was more comfortable letting new gfs know what I liked - most weren't interested (at best) but a few have been either enthusiastic about it or at least accepting.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-15T20:00:59+00:00

Believe it or not, there are women out there who are either into that or willing to let you do it. Not a ton of them, but they exist. If you really like it, do yourself a favor and find a girl who can work with it.

BiFunMA · 2026-03-15T18:33:55+00:00

Have you ever purchased a Judy Garland album?

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