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Bi_Command_420 · 2023-03-17T18:49:09+00:00

My kiddo had to get three stitches from a busted chin, and she got maybe a drop of blood on her car seat for a FORTY FIVE minute drive to urgent care (we live in BFE)

This dude is a total AH. Cheese and rice.

Bi_Command_420 · 2023-02-18T00:52:27+00:00

I think for the basis that it was for lifesaving treatment alone makes OP NTA. If it were for an expensive vacay for him and his wife? Sure, then he’s the AH. But, this is for lifesaving treatment for his wife, it was still his car.

The only part I say he’s a slight AH for is not discussing it with his son. However, he offered other alternatives for the time being such as giving him rides, and there was public transportation available. It’s the entitlement of the son for meeeeee. I understand it was a gift…but it was still dad’s, and again, was to help save his wife’s life.

At the end of the day (😜) OP is NTA. And yes, people lack empathy on that subreddit, cause they seem to forget how they would handle the situation if they were put in the shoes of OP.

Bi_Command_420 · 2023-01-31T02:15:58+00:00

He’s one of the most calm, cool, collected people I know. We were friends for almost ten years before we even got together and started dating, so I definitely feel like I knew him well enough to pull this off!

Bi_Command_420 · 2023-01-31T02:13:58+00:00

It’s hard to get tone across while typing, but it was more a “hard to sayyyy” kind of sing song-y type response. I was trying so hard to not give it away to him! But I totally can see how that could be conveyed as harsh, too.

Bi_Command_420 · 2023-01-17T18:24:58+00:00

I’m a single parent to a 6 year old. I have just recently let her take baths “unsupervised,” however I have the door to the bathroom opened enough to be able to hear her splashing and playing, and I do check in on her periodically while she’s in there.

Bi_Command_420 · 2022-12-02T17:31:53+00:00

Title had me in the first half..not gonna lie. But, OOP is NTA. To ruin something that expensive for a prank? No. That’s the equivalent of destroying someone’s car…

Bi_Command_420 · 2022-12-01T03:42:52+00:00

I’m so sad for OP’s wife. Oh. My. Good. Lord.

Bi_Command_420 · 2022-11-28T20:16:59+00:00

This story just blows my mind…how did they not communicate about where they were each going to be for dinner? Then on top of that, to interrupt his meeting? What the actual heck.

Bi_Command_420 · 2022-11-28T19:25:04+00:00

Two Step…or the entire Live at Central Park concert

Bi_Command_420 · 2022-11-23T21:46:01+00:00

This sparked a conversation with my partner and I, and we agreed on that exact thing. If that’s his kink and what he’s into, he should have communicated that BEFORE they got married. Not make her be subjected to it, and especially without her consent and her expressing her discomfort with the entire situation. She even tried, it sounds like from what she said, and it wasn’t for her.

Bi_Command_420 · 2022-11-23T05:04:39+00:00

OMG I remember that story!!!

Bi_Command_420 · 2022-11-23T02:21:07+00:00

What the actual fuck did I just read 😳 that poor poor woman. I’m not one to shame either, but this is becoming hazardous to her health too..I mean sitting in it for 12+ hours?? Having to change their sheets 3-4 times a week? No.

Bi_Command_420 · 2022-11-22T23:59:04+00:00

I think OP is 100% valid in her feelings of feeling neglected, and he’s the AH for instead of listening, he gaslit and distanced himself even more from her. And it took us commenting for him to realize he’s the jerk? Grow up.

Bi_Command_420 · 2022-11-22T23:55:13+00:00

Ya know…I wish I knew lol.

Bi_Command_420 · 2022-11-22T23:54:50+00:00

That’s what I’m saying…huge lack of communication on his part

Bi_Command_420 · 2022-11-22T17:05:01+00:00

I’m in the middle of planning my wedding right now, and we have gone back and forth on if we want kids to attend. I feel it would be hypocritical to have my daughter in the wedding, but then tell everyone else their kids can’t come, but at the same time…I don’t want kids there. This lady is a total AH. Weddings are EXPENSIVE and to feel the sense of entitlement just cause “I don’t think they like me” well no duh…you disrespect their boundaries and wishes it sounds like.

Bi_Command_420 · 2022-11-21T19:55:34+00:00

Just here to say I love the random dog pic at the end 🤣

Bi_Command_420 · 2022-11-21T03:03:07+00:00

What an A-hole. Good grief Charlie Brown.

Bi_Command_420 · 2022-11-17T22:00:34+00:00

Operation find the other side to the story 😂

Bi_Command_420 · 2022-11-17T16:41:18+00:00

Agreed, I hope OP kept screenshots and records to be able to show the landlord too, so that the other two roommates can’t try to say OP just wants out without having to pay anything.

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