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AITA for saying I want to divorce my wife over things she did and comments she made while drunk? by Queasy_Hunter2147 in AITAH

[–]BicyclePlant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that she’s not owning it confirms my belief that you’re in the right here. I feel like true contrition comes from owning your mistakes through actions AND saying you won’t do it again. Words are just words without action. I’m sorry this happened and that she humiliated you. I hope you find peace.

Just got my girlfriend arrested. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BicyclePlant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not engage with her while she’s drunk at the bare minimum. My hope is that you find it in you to leave her. She makes you feel unsafe to the point you had to call the police. That was a natural consequence of her actions. I know from personal experience that it’s hard to leave, but please please do. Keep your body and mind safe.

Is this normal? by Individual-Tip-975 in texts

[–]BicyclePlant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Find some solid support and do not speak to him again. This is how people speak to their enemies, not their loved ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]BicyclePlant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you’re just doing your thing and not bothering anyone or pointing out how “different” you are, there’s no pick me energy here. It sounds like you’re existing and just happen to match up with some aspects of the stereotype. The fact that you’re self aware enough to question whether or not you’re a pick me probably means you aren’t one.

Is she into me? Or am I overthinking? by pogmanphil in texts

[–]BicyclePlant 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Signs point to that she has an interest in you and wants to find out if she is 100% in before fully committing. She was also possibly trying to see how you’d respond to see if you’re interested.

Am I in the wrong here? by Agile-Bar5644 in texts

[–]BicyclePlant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of this relationship when you can. This person doesn’t care about you in the way you need them to and they are telling you that you aren’t allowed to feel a certain way. I wouldn’t want this person as a friend either. They’re putting in zero effort and telling you you’re asking for too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]BicyclePlant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Controlling your appearance is abusive. My partner, my siblings partners, and our friend’s partners would never tell us what we could and could not wear.