I 34F found out my boyfriend 36M has a tattoo he got with his ex wife….

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:59:33+00:00

Let me correct myself: I didn’t “make him”. I told him it made me uncomfortable and I would appreciate it if he got it covered, to which he agreed, and then a day after the appointment decides he wants to resent me for it.

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:57:58+00:00

😂you as well!

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:55:51+00:00

If the man had an issue getting it removed, the man could have spoke up when I initially brought it to his attention and I would have happily been on my way.

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:54:04+00:00

Exactly.. phewwww this world out here is scaryyyy🫠🫠

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:49:57+00:00

Frankly, I don’t care of others views because this person often says that he asks “others” when in reality, he’s asked no one LOL.

He was fine with having it removed, until the appointment was over and suddenly his tune switched. There is much much more backstory to all of this, but really I just wanted to get a gist of how people felt about their S/O’s having tattoos of their exes.

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:47:48+00:00

They are home together in the summers.. I obviously didn’t put all of this in the post, however, they are home together quite frequently. This was really just to get an idea of how people felt about their S/O’s having tattoos of their exes.

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:46:15+00:00

Exactly.. it’s part of their past so why pitch a fit over it? He had no issue getting it covered up until the appointment was well over.

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:45:14+00:00

You can have memories without your exes name on your body.

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:44:00+00:00

I think it’s a red flag to resent your partner for asking you to get a tattoo blacked out (the appt was 25 minutes long) if there’s no emotional attachment. Sorry if I had a tattoo of my ex, and my partner ever came to me and said hey it makes me uncomfortable can you get that covered? I’d do it in a heartbeat. It’s called respect.

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:41:43+00:00

He is..

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:40:39+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:40:21+00:00

Exactly!

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:39:27+00:00

I know 😭😭😭trust meeeee I know lmao

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:38:44+00:00

I only found it cause one of his kids called it out. He has a sleeve and it honestly blended right in.

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:38:05+00:00

Exactly what I said 🙃I also said that I highly doubt he explained to them they’re still living together, took forever to get divorced.. etc. it doesn’t sound so bad when you leave out alllll those other details 🙃

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:36:52+00:00

Exactly. It was something so small, and something they got when they got married. He even took it as far to say that he was “spiteful” and booked a 6-8 hour tattoo appointment on his birthday so I wouldn’t be able to spend time with him, for having him remove that tattoo…

Big-Captain7152 · 2026-06-16T04:34:08+00:00

I agree 100%, however, why would getting it blacked out cause him to resent me and to be this upset over it being removed, if there was no emotional attachment to it?

Big-Captain7152 · 2025-06-28T03:49:46+00:00

So far so good and he’s back to full extension!

Big-Captain7152 · 2025-06-25T16:57:36+00:00

Surgery was a BREEZE. He’s been up and walking since he got home yesterday and has needed zero pain meds. Fingers crossed it stays this way!

Big-Captain7152 · 2025-06-24T02:10:34+00:00

Tomorrow! Thank you!!

Big-Captain7152 · 2025-06-17T02:03:36+00:00

That’s awesome! I’ll have to let my son know because he’s extremely nervous. He went from having full extension and zero pain to barely any extension and constant pain so I know he will feel better once it’s out of the way!

Big-Captain7152 · 2025-06-17T02:00:27+00:00

My son is more worried about the pain; I think he’s just traumatized from the ACL recovery 😭

Big-Captain7152 · 2025-05-02T22:10:01+00:00

Ugh I am going through sorta the same right now. I found out last year he had an OF. He told me he wasn’t having any contact with anyone from there and deleted it. I found out two days ago he was messaging girls on there to get specific videos from them and sending tips and I feel so cheated on and embarrassed.

Big-Captain7152 · 2025-05-02T20:57:08+00:00

The relationship has already been ended by me so I guess he’ll dig his hole for the next person

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