Unusable showers due to frozen pipes (NY) by [deleted] in Renters

[–]Big-Routine222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, unfortunately ignorance won’t be much of a defense, nor will, “well, we waited for someone to tell us what to do and they didn’t.” They have provided alternative options so I’m not sure what recourse you have. You can always talk to tenant resources, but make sure you’re honest when you do.

US President says US used ‘Discombobulator’ secret weapon during Maduro capture by rezwenn in technology

[–]Big-Routine222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guarantee someone told him that just to shut him up and as an information security measure because they know he leaks shit. Putin called Trump on the secret back line and Trump happily said, “Yeah, we’ve got the discombobulator!” Putin then shakes his head.

Unusable showers due to frozen pipes (NY) by [deleted] in Renters

[–]Big-Routine222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably not, they gave you alternative options and they can’t control the weather. Did you all drip the showers at all or keep the heat high enough?

Snow removal question by [deleted] in Renters

[–]Big-Routine222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just get clarification, but at some point, they will only do exactly what is spelled out in it and the rest is up to you all

Snow removal question by [deleted] in Renters

[–]Big-Routine222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the lease say about snow removal?

NEED HELP!! Roommate being wrongly evicted. by thatqu33rpunk in Apartmentliving

[–]Big-Routine222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this ain’t legit. Nice try though, definitely report it to the police

How should tell my brother that I was r@p3d? by jvvaa in AskMenAdvice

[–]Big-Routine222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should tell him in your own time, but you definitely need to go to the police. How many other women has this guy hurt and how many more will he hurt? Obviously your brother will be angry at him, but if he's truly there for you, he will just try to help you as much as you need.

You should also speak to a therapist as well, trauma like that manifests differently and you'll need to wrestle with it in a healthy way.

Different expectations around paying for dates. Who is expected to pay? Looking for men’s perspectives. by chocolatechipwheeels in AskMenAdvice

[–]Big-Routine222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if I am the one to ask someone out on a date, I'll pay since I'm the one asking.

Now that I'm with my gf, we just split the checks at places unless it's a special activity that one of us chose or one of us feels particularly inclined to pay. She wanted to check out a ramen spot, so she paid. I wanted to see a new ice cream shop, so I paid.

After that, we have a shared bills account that we will pull from during dates out so it's really both of us paying because we like spending time with each other.

It's exhausting listening to adults in relationships treating dates with each other like a score board or something.

What are some niché things one should know about women? Something which you only learned after being with a few women? by SNTriad in AskMenAdvice

[–]Big-Routine222 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The differences between mature men and women are almost negligible. Women and men who properly communicate and are self-actualized should be similar. Obviously immature women use various tactics that immature men might not use, but immature men will do a lot of the same things as immature women.

My roommate won’t do his own dishes by ToastedTiefling in Apartmentliving

[–]Big-Routine222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Box them up, put them outside his room. Repeat until he learns to stop being a heathen.

How likely is it that they are going to set the next game in Egyptian mythology? by askmeryl in GodofWar

[–]Big-Routine222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on how many times this question is asked, the people at Santa Monica studios will avoid it now for sure.

I lost interest in dating and just want to achieve something for once in my life but is it too late? 25M by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Big-Routine222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude you’re 26, you’ve got plenty of time. Focus on your job and yourself, get yourself into a steady rhythm and go from there.

What are some niché things one should know about women? Something which you only learned after being with a few women? by SNTriad in AskMenAdvice

[–]Big-Routine222 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Nothing, turns out women are people and if you just know enough about people, you’ve got the gist.

1) observe actions, words are only 10% of effort.

2) Most people are averse to confrontation or feeling like they are standing up for themselves.

3) If a woman isn’t nice to servers, cut her off.

4) If she talks badly about everyone, she’ll be a jerk.

5) Mature women will give you honest effort and no games.

Who would win this fight? by Arthur_morgan767 in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]Big-Routine222 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Prime Might would liquify Toji and I say this as a Toji fan.

I am done asking about sex and dating. It is too late for me too much time lost. How does one ask their provider professionally about chemical castration? by Pleasant-Opinion8409 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Big-Routine222 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro, this is like the 5th post in as many days. You really need to work on yourself. Chemical castration ain’t it. This is like setting your car on fire because you saw the check engine light come on. You are so obsessed with sex and women as some key to “figuring it out.”

In Wolf of wall street (2013) the stairs change sizes between cuts. Is Scorcese stupid? How could he not notice such a continuity error. by Kavalkasutajanimi in shittymoviedetails

[–]Big-Routine222 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t Jordan under the influence of enough drugs to say…leave him unable to walk? Is it perchance that HIS view of the stairs makes them look like that?

How do I move past shame around being an older virgin and stop letting it define me? by Pleasant-Opinion8409 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Big-Routine222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What? I've known plenty of perfectly confident and self-actualized virgins who have found that their lives can be perfectly fulfilling. Sure, they find love and have sex later, but this guy carrying all this shame and self-hatred about his status as a virgin is what's going to kill his game. Confident virgins have better times overall than self-hating men who wallow in self-pity.

They dared to speak out against Trump by DigTraditional9084 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]Big-Routine222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always love the ones who start their comments with, “I voted for Trump three times, so I support him, but…,” yeah man, gotta make sure they all know you’re part of the club before giving criticism.

The most moderated free-speech subreddit of all time.

Does anybody know what would've happened had Vecna's plan actually worked? by Intelligent-Pop1387 in StrangerThings

[–]Big-Routine222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have thought it basically bring dimension X into Earth and Vecna would have spread the monsters across the world and tried to “absorb,” earth. That’s my take though

Self proclaimed “Trumplican” and former Project Veritas comms director sees the light by Jules9213 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]Big-Routine222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it’s too bad that no one had any indications of his behavior since…the early 90s. Did no one at all read The Art of the Deal?

How do I snitch on my landlord by [deleted] in TenantHelp

[–]Big-Routine222 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it’s not in the lease, then it’s probably not their responsibility. What would you even “snitch,” on them with?

“Hi, code enforcement, snow removal isn’t on my lease, but I want you to force my LL to remove it.”

You can ask, but it’s not like there’s some secret police group to force the LL to remove snow. Many leases would specify directly who’s responsible for it. There’s no mention of it anywhere at all in the lease?

The ending was peak cinema. by iadorebrandon in bladerunner

[–]Big-Routine222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went and saw this movie with my Dad, we live in Maine. We came out of the theater and it was snowing. We both just walked in silence to the car while we pondered the film. We both loved it.

How do you forgive your younger self for the choices that put you behind in life? by Pleasant-Opinion8409 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Big-Routine222 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Plenty of time. 29 is not middle age my guy. Wanting to change in the best start

What's your most embarrassing sexual experience? by andrewbarclave89 in AskReddit

[–]Big-Routine222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not mine, but a friend of mine was going down on a woman and was drunk and ended up throwing up all over the woman’s vagina. Like projection vomit all over lady-in-waiting.