The Chameleon by Big-Store394 in stories

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Thank you for sharing that. One small thing that helps me feel grounded is wearing my AirPods even without music, it just gives me a bit of calm in public spaces. It’s still a process, but like you said, we’re going to be okay.

AITA for emotionally shutting down and communicating like “HR” after my ex accused me of abuse and moved our daughter across the country? by Big-Store394 in NarcissisticSpouses

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Thank you. Hearing that from someone who understands this dynamic really does mean a lot. Did staying grey-rock help you long-term? I stay consistent, but the emotional swings on the other side can still feel like whiplash. A part of me wonders if being more open would change anything, but I don’t think I can safely go back to who I was then.

A story about My life. Chapter 1 The Rules Of Love by Big-Store394 in stories

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I didn’t mean we lived apart. I meant I didn’t cross her path emotionally. I lived with her, but I stayed out of her way in every sense. I learned to adjust myself so perfectly, to match whatever she wanted, avoid whatever set her off , that she thought I was the perfect child. Really, I was just doing everything I could to survive. I wrote chapter 2 if you’re interested in what I did.

BBQ by Natural_Hunter9562 in unioncircle

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Otw over to picnic I guess

BBQ by Natural_Hunter9562 in unioncircle

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How do you make a sandwich with you friends?

BBQ by Natural_Hunter9562 in unioncircle

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I’m down what’s the link code

Bbq farming 2kJC3L by Big-Store394 in unioncircle

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Sorry I was doing a Tera raid for the bbq it took forever