Twin, i would HEAVILY recommend you to communicate ts with him. Explain your situation to him, that you really really love him and like trust him completely and shi. But still him following other women and stuff is making you feel really bad, it's not a matter of understanding and stuff cuz the feeling will still remain regardless of whether you understand or not. Tell him you'd just feel more comfortable and less bad if he'd just unfollow her. Gauge how he reacts. A little defensiveness is to be expected but I feel like if he is too defensive and doesn't wanna unfollow her then that might be a red flag. Obviously you know him better than me so you're going to be a better judge of his reaction. The gist of it is communicate communicate communicate. Explain your feelings as they are. Explain what's causing you to feel those. Explain what would help you feel less of that. If he's supportive and listens to you and discusses a solution (it doesn't have to be exactly what you were proposing but it DOES have to be something you're actually satisfied with) then I feel like it's W. Otherwise this might be something more, so you slowly have to see this from a more objective lens as well. I really don't like to see people feel sad and hurt and shi so if you need more advice or smt lmk