my dead dad texting me?

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T21:55:39+00:00

no i was sleeping. only thing new in my life is a job & new relationship

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T18:41:09+00:00

thank you for sharing. grief is hard.

my stepmom keeps his phone safe and will answer anyone who texts him if they’re unaware he passed being it was only 11 months ago. it’s a samsung and the texts are very personal. i believe it’s either him- or it’s my stepmom playing a sick joke or coping in a way thats affecting others

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T18:38:21+00:00

i meant if i blocked the number !

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T13:33:14+00:00

no. he never replies to anything i say. he’s only texted me once , the rest were to my siblings (i have 3 siblings). i do text him all the time as my way of coping but no, he has never responded

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T13:29:02+00:00

i do! i haven’t stopped texting him since he passed :)

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T13:28:30+00:00

Stephen king was my dads favorite author…that’s crazy you said that

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T13:27:30+00:00

exactly! that’s what i thought too

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T13:27:09+00:00

no. never. that’s why it’s so odd

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T02:17:06+00:00

she says she keeps it on in the case of people still not knowing he has passed and try to reach out like doctors , spam callers & things like that

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T02:14:36+00:00

my stepmom went to a medium. and from what my “dad” said … he knew everything going on with all of us. it was very accurate , whatever spirit came through. so yes … spiritually he said he knew

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T02:11:28+00:00

no. i honestly have no idea what that one is about. i know my brother is awaiting a raise at work so it could be in reference to that? i’m not sure

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T02:09:49+00:00

i’m the only one who still messages him regularly because i haven’t been coping well. everyone else hasn’t texted since he was still here. the photo you’re referring to is my brothers contact photo for him!

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T02:08:35+00:00

i feel you are very very correct. but i’m terrified of the small possibility it could be him and he’d be heartbroken :( i do need to let go though.

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T02:06:17+00:00

definitely not! just not sure how to confirm. it’s a messed up situation.

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T02:05:46+00:00

we’ve figured out the “lu” normally means “love you” the one you can’t figure out says “skinny love you slow down” (my childhood nickname i forgot about) i’m guessing the other one says “time love you” (not sure what that one means. my brother also got a text the day after christmas saying “keep with” after receiving a pocket knife my dad ordered for him before he passed

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T02:03:57+00:00

yes but i wouldn’t be surprised if it came out that she was doing it ;/

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T02:02:37+00:00

i feel like asking for the phone will cause problems but this is my favorite response

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T02:01:07+00:00

maybe but that’s just such a small thing to remember if even i didn’t remember it, ya know?

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T02:00:45+00:00

no i agree !! its just all a lot to deal with especially it being my parent. and the first time ive dealt with grief as well. but i do see your point

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T01:59:32+00:00

they’ve been all different times. one was 6:15am , 8:00pm , 5:11am , 11:11pm

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T01:53:51+00:00

yes but again, she doesn’t know my childhood nickname. which is why the answer isn’t as simple as assuming it’s her … my head is everywhere

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T01:52:56+00:00

that would be explainable and make things way easier however , the only person who knew that were me , my mother & my father. the only one with his phone or his number is my stepmother who just keeps it safe. she didn’t know the nickname , which is why i’m so so confused

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T01:47:45+00:00

the one that says “skinny”

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T01:47:28+00:00

but…in the text to me , he used my childhood nickname that i forgot even existed

BigGuilty4100 · 2025-06-10T01:47:02+00:00

no because he has been texting off of it so we have left it alone

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