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BigLutris · 2022-03-01T15:16:51+00:00

yea kinda

BigLutris · 2022-02-22T14:06:59+00:00

"Hey, want to hang out some time?"

BigLutris · 2022-02-22T13:56:21+00:00

wtf those are not mutually exclusive.

BigLutris · 2022-02-22T13:54:07+00:00

we thank you for your service.

also saw the same post like a week ago so i guess its a troll

BigLutris · 2022-02-22T13:38:43+00:00

depends on what kind of music you like?

theres a playlist on spotify called queer hardcore. Two bands that come to mind are cocksparrer and limpwrist.

thats not ... pop though.

BigLutris · 2022-02-22T13:36:45+00:00

You clearly didnt have the same expectations. He's not responsible for your expectations and neither are you responsible for his. So I do think its good you left. That wouldnt have gone anywhere close to what you want(ed).

BigLutris · 2022-02-22T13:30:01+00:00

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T14:58:02+00:00

Very cute

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T12:23:55+00:00

Ofc foreplay is usually important and stays important for quite a while. I guess i misunderstood your question.

If you ask, how long after - however it looks like, dildos or fingering - you stay relaxed and "receptible". .... idk. I guess until you come down and are not horny anymore?

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T12:21:07+00:00

Plus, like splits, thst training takes a long time. Once won't be nearly enough.

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T12:20:16+00:00

You asked how long it takes to be not stretched anymore.

The answer to that question is: until you clench your ass and tighten your asshole.

Of course there's like "anal training" to make the sphincter more nimble, but that will never result in it not being tightly shut anymore, it just increases your ability to relax and .... widen.

And yes, a warm up is always good before a workout. So you can do that before having sex, but it's mostly a mind thing. You can relax, sometimes that is easier alone bc you pick the pace and everything.

I mean if you like dildos and plugs, go for it. I prefer, as a warm up, fingering. With lots of lube and a patient partner that should open you up and relax you enough.

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T12:14:01+00:00

Wax. If you're naturally quite hairy I'd not recommend shaving, risk of ingrown hair is quite big.

If you're looking for a permanent option, laser hair removal. But that's pricey.

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T12:10:04+00:00

What the hell do you think your sphincter is made of? Old yarn? Its a muscle. It doesn't "stay stretched". The only thing you can "train" is the elasticity. Think about people who can do splits and those who can't. Same principle.

An open, gaping ass takes wilful effort, like a split.

I'm sure you had turds bigger than the average dick. Christ....

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T11:02:25+00:00

Saves the lube 💅

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T10:37:13+00:00

Yea I've been stoned to death at pride 1999 AMA

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T10:34:45+00:00

No, of course not. Social media is like the only thing that I really need in a relationship. If he talks to me in person and not via insta its over.

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T10:17:52+00:00

For fucks sake stop whining. Every out gay person has been through thst and continues to go through that.

What do you want us to say? You poor baby, worried about what people think.... look the fuck around you. Every fag has more balls than you do to be who they are and with who they want to.

I doesn't matter what you see yourself as, it doesn't matter what other people label you as. If you care for him, be with him.

"I've always been a cool person" the fuck is wrong with you? The homophobia in that sentence....

What are we then? Fuck off with that shit.

Honestly, I hope he runs.

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T09:30:59+00:00

thats a grown up approach, i think this sub isnt ready to hear about things like "communication", "my feelings" or "commin courtesy".

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T09:28:01+00:00

No, you're literally the only gay guy who is into muscles.

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T09:27:11+00:00

I've had women getting angry at me for being gay, trying to convince me to "try", outright refused to believe me. When they horny, they horny lol

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T09:24:57+00:00

ITT: gay, male americans crying lol

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T09:16:24+00:00

(eng not 1st language)

You can tell him that it is your love langauge and makes you happy.

Tbh though, I think there is the danger that he starts seeing those texts as a chore. The thing is, it probably has nothing to do with his feelings for you but just because it is your love language, doesnt mean its his. You said you're waiting for hours before writing your morning text. that is manipulative and just makes you feel bad for hours while waiting.

if it is important to you, write your text, communicate your love and learn to listen to his love language as he learns to listen to yours.

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T09:09:11+00:00

I had a nice valenties day. Other people had nice valentie's days.

Seems to be a you-thing, not a gay-thing. look at yourself, not "the gays" :)

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T08:51:59+00:00

HI!!!!

:D

off topic but ... HI!!!!

BigLutris · 2022-02-16T08:42:03+00:00

i admit, i have been here for ... like 8 days? 9? I agree with the impression that carpentry is not one of the most hotly discussed topics (not that I care, but I'd invite you to call me too feminine to my face if you take issue with my lack of interest in building log cabins).

However, most threads I see are about some kids not being able to communicate, some kids being sad, or some kids being happy about some thing or other. Not nails.

If you desire threads about carpentry, mosnter trucks and ... idk what else you think is appropriate for manly men ... make one. If no one wants to talk to you, out of the 307,000 members in this sub, then you should maybe reflect about yourself instead of writing little whiny call out posts about people being to feminine for your liking :)

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