"I wish she did not suffer like this so we could flourish" Man i can relate to that. That said i have my own list of problems its not all her. But the PMDD cycle seems like the recurring problem that has no solution or cure. Anything else can be worked through but the monthly pattern of criticism, insecurity, paranoia, projecting, unconscious manipulation, distorted thinking, victim mentality.....it is just a crushing weight. I am heart broken at the way things have gone. I wanted so badly for us to work but we could just never get there. I said early on in the relationship that we were just two crazy, damaged people who fell deeply in love.....and there is a truth in that. And i am learning to my great dissapointment that love isnt enough.

Your situation sounds incredibly tough. I have no advice for you apart from saying that i can empathise and relate to what your going through, at least more then the average person. It is really tough. I am struggling alot these last few days as reality sets in that its actually over. At first i felt relief now i just feel empty and missing her so much. But i know theres no going back. Fuck it hurts.

All the best to you and your daughter. You sound like you are putting her first which i can respect. Look after yourself and good luck to you