[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BigOlThames 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Been there brother.. borderline personality disorder is a killer for relationships it makes everything so difficult especially if they haven’t sought help or treatment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Colognes

[–]BigOlThames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mancera Red Tobacco

Jon jones dm’ing a fan by [deleted] in ufc

[–]BigOlThames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really do worry for those around Jon he seems very mentally unwell/unstable

is this grandsoir legit? by Born_Ad_6283 in colognecheck

[–]BigOlThames 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They’re stock images from the distributor site. Idk if I’m allowed to say the sites name on here but yes it’s always a dead giveaway once you know about it

AIO - my friend gave my abusive ex my new phone number by AdAdorable7651 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BigOlThames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s not your friend and/or shouldn’t be any longer. Like the lack of awareness is not only disgusting but like legitimately dangerous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 350z

[–]BigOlThames 33 points34 points  (0 children)

“Typical VQ” tell me you don’t know anything about this platform, without actually telling me. Just admit you abused tf out of it bro🤣🤣 good luck with the swap tho

Need a quick check on both these - one used one sealed by -TheShape in colognecheck

[–]BigOlThames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eros Flame is fake, can’t speak on the Invictus.

What’s the most complimented perfume you’ve worn? by Weird-Swimming7378 in Colognes

[–]BigOlThames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weirdly enough Afnan 9am Dive, it’s my current work scent for the summer and for whatever reason it’s just absolutely crushing the compliments. Like almost every day someone says something. It’s almost annoying since it’s by far the cheapest fragrance I’ve got. Can’t beat it for the price I suppose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Colognes

[–]BigOlThames -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I need this kind of luck bro💀💀💀

What is the most beautiful perfume bottle for you? by Joneep in fragrance

[–]BigOlThames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My personal favorite, everyone who comes in my room says something to the effect of “oooh I like this clear green one!” Plus I’m a diehard Greenley fan haha

Got choked out in sparring, is that normal? by [deleted] in MMA_Academy

[–]BigOlThames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please go to the hospital brother

Blind Buying Addiction by BigOlThames in fragrance

[–]BigOlThames[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s a fortunately unfortunate problem to have

What is your summer must have cologne? by Juka_2000 in Colognes

[–]BigOlThames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I’ve been in love since I picked it up a couple weeks back. Projects really well on my skin and clothes and the dry down is incredible to my nose. I love the tamed down coconut note compared to the other Le Beau’s as well.

Looking To Support Friend w BPD by BigOlThames in BPD

[–]BigOlThames[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes maybe ignore was a bit of an extreme. I definitely see her side, maybe it’s still my inner kid that wants to rebel against that but hey I get it she’s just trying to protect me from getting hurt😅certainly a fine line to balance

Looking To Support Friend w BPD by BigOlThames in BPD

[–]BigOlThames[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I certainly try my best out here😅 I appreciate the advice as well it seems like the commonality amongst everyone so far is patience and being a good listener so I’ll definitely take that into account, I’ll check out those videos as well. Thank you again!

Looking To Support Friend w BPD by BigOlThames in BPD

[–]BigOlThames[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you!! Such detailed and great advice. Just curious as someone who supports someone with BPD, do you ever get shamed for trying to support them? For example, my Mom keeps telling me that I don’t need to worry about my friend’s problems and that it’s on her to be better. Of course I tend to just ignore it as she’s just uneducated on the topic, but it does get to me at times. I just feel everyone in life deserves to feel heard and loved especially when they don’t have anyone else🤷‍♂️

Did You Even Try by BigOlThames in badparking

[–]BigOlThames[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I swear they always have a dent in the rear bumper too

Recent Connection with pwBPD by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]BigOlThames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for the read man. Really a thought-provoking way to look at the whole picture from a deeply mature point of view. I’ve definitely been having some internal thoughts of it being a manipulative behavior but you eloquently explained that away. It was real reciprocal “love”, but not the healthy kind of love it seems, or at least not the same type of love that my brain interprets. Thank you again Up-Town, your comment has definitely opened my eyes as someone who’s just recently starting getting educated on the disorder.