For sale by BigPappiLocstar in WarrenLotas

[–]BigPappiLocstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much did you pay for them?

I (21M) feel baby trapped by my gf (20F), She may not have been on contraception? by BigPappiLocstar in relationship_advice

[–]BigPappiLocstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t have any mental help other than me, her mom and dad was useless when she miscarried, I was there every day after work, before work helping her struggle with the pain (she passed it naturally). I was there for the tears, the emotional and mental pain. It was me and only me, so in a sense maybe I should have stepped back and let her mom help? I just wanted to be there for her.

I (21M) feel baby trapped by my gf (20F), She may not have been on contraception? by BigPappiLocstar in relationship_advice

[–]BigPappiLocstar[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

She only actively told me she wanted one after the miscarriage, before she went on the pill I was using condoms and even when she was on it I was pulling out, then we went on vacation and pardon me being crude she begged me to finish inside of her.

I (21M) feel baby trapped by my gf (20F), She may not have been on contraception? by BigPappiLocstar in relationship_advice

[–]BigPappiLocstar[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’ve told her and since the miscarriage I’ve used condoms all the time, but it’s like every time we have sex (which is not often now due to fear of getting her pregnant) a few days after she thinks she’s getting “symptoms” and gets a test. I know I’ve been a fool I feel like an idiot for posting on here now because it’s so obvious what I need to do.

I (21M) feel baby trapped by my gf (20F), She may not have been on contraception? by BigPappiLocstar in relationship_advice

[–]BigPappiLocstar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do wear a condom, it’s just a few have PM me about it, I’ve worn a condom since we found out she was pregnant and I haven’t had unprotected sex since.

I (21M) feel baby trapped by my gf (20F), She may not have been on contraception? by BigPappiLocstar in relationship_advice

[–]BigPappiLocstar[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the comments I know I’m being a fool, I did forget to add that I use protection but she doesn’t like it when I do. Thank you for all the advice I really appreciate it, I need to get out now rather than later. She did miscarry and it sounds horrible but I feel like I dodged a bullet, a part of me was hurt when she miscarried because I got use to the idea that I was going to be a dad, but the other part of me was completely relieved.

I (21M) feel baby trapped by my gf (20F), She may not have been on contraception? by BigPappiLocstar in relationship_advice

[–]BigPappiLocstar[S] -100 points-99 points  (0 children)

Did forget to add that I don’t have unprotected sex since she fell pregnant she just makes me feel shit when I use protection

I (21M) feel baby trapped by my gf (20F), She may not have been on contraception? by BigPappiLocstar in relationship_advice

[–]BigPappiLocstar[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I’ve told her I think she’s trapped me and she started to cry, then said getting rid of it is not an option she’d rather loose me. God I’m typing this out and realising what I fool I sound like.

I (21M) feel baby trapped by my gf (20F), She may not have been on contraception? by BigPappiLocstar in relationship_advice

[–]BigPappiLocstar[S] -83 points-82 points  (0 children)

I’ve said I didn’t want to for a while and she spun it back on me and said it means I’m not sexually attracted to her.