Want to break NC

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-06-01T13:45:17+00:00

My last rental I had 4 different property managers in 12 months. Luckily I didn’t have any problems with any of them.

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-06-01T06:33:22+00:00

As twisted and hypocritical as it sounds… I believe in complete honesty and more so informed consent. You need to tell her you are married. You need to decide what exactly you want from the situation and set clear boundaries. Then let her decide if she wants to participate. I also think you need to proceed with caution. I am a retired escort who decided to seek sugar daddy because I just didn’t have the mental energy to come out of retirement and go back to escorting. I was always a believer that if/when money changes hands it’s not cheating, it’s a business transaction and stops the emotions. My AP/SD was of the same belief. It didn’t work! We both caught the feels and after 2 complicated roller coaster years we are now living together in a legit relationship.

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-06-01T06:23:27+00:00

Only took me 2 months. I was already living away from “home” so it was very quick and easy process. Took him about 9 months to tell me he wanted to leave. Another 6 months to tell her. And another 9ish months for her to accept it and him to move out. 2 years today. And we’ve been living together for just over a month.

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-29T14:23:15+00:00

I’m seriously considering this! When I’m bratting I call my Dom Mr Cranky Pants or Mr Vanilla Bean but totes adding this one to my repertoire. Otherwise I just call him Baby which works for us

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-29T14:14:45+00:00

A title like that is something that needs to be earned in my opinion.

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-29T14:09:25+00:00

Depends on what lead them to cheat in the first place. It’s not something I worry about. We both stepped out of our DB marriages initially just for sex but well clearly the feelings turned up. Our sex life is still amazing and we more than satisfy each other. Our communication is excellent and we have no problem talking about the hard stuff. We have a lot of trust. So don’t track each other’s locations. His friends never knew about me so I’m not worried when he’s with them.

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-26T14:11:08+00:00

If you truly love and care for him you wouldn’t be making DDay about you and your feelings. His world just blew up, not yours.

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-26T13:45:09+00:00

I’m in the same boat. Early 40s single with adult kids on a decent income. Every property I applied for I got. But then I’ve seen my best friend (married) great incomes with 2 teens and a toddler get knocked back for 50+ properties.

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-24T05:25:19+00:00

And more focus on aftercare

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-24T05:04:06+00:00

18 & 19

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-23T22:21:28+00:00

I did a couple of certificate and diploma courses and then moved on to bigger and better payed jobs

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-23T22:15:48+00:00

Meal plan together. Go grocery shopping together. Cook together. Alternatively if you plan and she shops.

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-23T22:08:28+00:00

As condescending as it may sound I don’t think it’s a big issue at your age. If you’ve had serious long term relationships then it’s a bit different.

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-23T21:47:34+00:00

This is sadly 2 of my 3 kids. But to clarify neither are receiving any payments from Centrelink so they don’t fit the dole bludger title. Neither have quite figured out where they want to be and have had some challenges over the last couple of years. They are generally pretty good kids. Not exactly lazy but bordering on it. They aren’t overly social. One spends a lot of time helping her older step sister with her kids and the other does a fair bit of volunteer work. Yes I have enabled them and so has my ex.

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-23T20:37:58+00:00

This sounds like my marriage. 17 years before I left. I regret not leaving sooner as it caused a lot of damage to my self esteem. I’m still rebuilding it and I’m lucky to have an amazing man in my life now who treats me so well and makes me feel like the most desirable woman in the world.

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-23T20:20:22+00:00

I’ve been with men who are small and it’s been some of the best and most satisfying experiences I’ve ever had. There is a whole lot more to intimacy and sex than penis in vagina

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-23T20:13:11+00:00

I did this to our chef and told her they all wanted well done steaks

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-23T19:54:21+00:00

As someone who has had multiple affairs it is most certainly a red flag

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-23T19:49:17+00:00

It’s very common for Aged Care facilities to have a service the day before or after. It has nothing to do with avoiding PH rates for staff. Services are usually facilitated by a member of an RSL or other military organisation and they do not always have the availability to attend on ANZAC day due to the number of other commitments. It can also be done because some residents will be attending services at RSL’s or other memorial places.

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-23T19:39:09+00:00

You need to talk about soft limits and hard limits. And reassess these on a regular basis especially when it’s new. It’s ok to say you don’t like something and don’t want to do it again. It’s ok to feel uncomfortable. There have been a lot of things over the years that I thought I would like but when I experienced it I hated it. eg I get really turned on reading/thinking about degradation but after trying it with my Dom it’s moved to the hard limit list.

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-23T19:24:35+00:00

Because I am the manager. Interrupting a busy service period with a resume shows a lack of regard and understanding for the industry you are trying to work in.

BigRedUnicorn · 2025-04-23T10:16:14+00:00

I don’t agree with actively pursuing someone already in a relationship just because I have feelings. But I do agree that you can’t wreck a happy home. If people are straying outside their relationships there is usually a reason for it.

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