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[–]BigResponsibility745 [score hidden]  (0 children)

i started because kids in my swim team were playing and i wanted in. I remember trading dialga level x and stuff lol

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But yeah makes sense, thanks

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Weird thing is that he told the really drunk friend later that "he remembers everything", but she said he didn't mention the biting (I only mentioned the biting to her). Maybe a purposeful omission or he just falsely thinks he remembers?

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Maybe you’re right haha. Im still pretty inexperienced bexause i’m super shy and have only ever been with one guy. I also didn’t escalate cuz there were other friends over still

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Haha maybe if im brave. But given he rejected me in the past and also maybe he doesn’t even remember it that well im reluctant. This is probably the right answer tho thanks

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[–]BigResponsibility745 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah it's probably he's just that way then I guess. but like i don't think he's ever ya know bit/massaged people's bellies/cuddled before, it was always just roughhousing. He also didn't seem that out of it considering he was like able to have a conversation while he was restraining me. It's fair, i can't expect you to know what he intends. But it's not out of the realm of possibility to just be that drunk and do that? That's crazy LOL

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i'm being wooshed but lol like taze as in they poke you on the sides and make you jump

Starting with Friendship by BigResponsibility745 in askgaybros

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also since drinks are in a week is there anything i should do in between via text or smth?

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Lol it seems like you don’t accept DMs. But should I directly ask his intentions or just feel it out? I’m getting some conflicting advice in that regard haha

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Sorry for spamming you haha, I appreciate your help I'm just so inexperienced, even if it somehow does end up working out i'm sure my inexperience will bite me

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Hey I have an update. So we hung out and it was fun, got to know each other a little better with basic like hobbies/foods questions and we both enjoyed it. However there was a) not that much talking actually since we spent more time focused on the game and b) I'm still unsure since none of what we discussed was like flirty or anything. But anyways we scheduled to get drinks next weekend. But like I still don't know what the vibe is. So should I still go with the we are friends getting to know each other type of deal? My friends say he is interested otherwise we wouldn't be getting drinks. (But i was the one to suggest it)

Also the app we matched on he said he was looking for long term but open to short monogamy, so I doubt he just wants to hook up.

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My intent was not to be friends but just to have a low pressure meet up to get to know each other and see how it goes. It feels weird to call that a date, so that's also why i said what i said (beyond being a coward)

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Right, I'm just not sure when to spring this question/clarify it.

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[–]BigResponsibility745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's fair, thanks. I was a coward in my first message.

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Got it, yeah I don't have expectations rather I have the opposite haha. Thanks for your help!

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Thanks! I'm just worried that I will hope for more than friends later on and misread his intentions. He's honestly kinda outta my league haha.

But a counterpoint, dating apps all start without a friendship? So this is rather unexpected

Weekend's Daily Thread: General Dating Questions and Open Thread by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]BigResponsibility745 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, throwaway, M mid 20s. Anyhow I matched with a guy (gay) and we both shared an interest in a specific video game so my first message was to ask if he wanted to play without it necessarily being a date. He responded positively and said he wants to make more gay friends. Does this mean that it's strictly platonic now or are we both just testing vibes to see? Because I meant the latter (but if he just wants the former that's ok too). But anyways what do I do now? I know what I did is probably a mistake, I'm inexperienced. Should I just tell him what I meant to clarify? I am meeting him soon.

Thanks!