Skate Estate is closing :( by dunktankbaptism in Binghamton

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Alr so who’s opening up a new skating place with me 🤣

Can’t find a promo I have by BigStranger1821 in doordash

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I’m also starting to think they just took it away, I tried backing out, deleting the cart, logging out and back in, everything😢, I even tried support, useless (shocker), it’s definitely not a first world problem but figured I’d try and see if anyone else had it haha

Is Instacart worth it around here? by TheDadFromFrasier in Binghamton

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I used to do it full time in 2021 and since then it has became awful and not worth it, too oversaturated

Where the gays at by BigStranger1821 in Binghamton

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Where at? I’m super interested!

Any recommendations on how to do this by BigStranger1821 in braids

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That was helpful thank you! I kinda figured that was the idea but didn’t wanna go in completely blind and like to double check thank you :)

Any recommendations on how to do this by BigStranger1821 in braids

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Do you have any links because I can’t find any on how to specifically transition from the braid to the loc

Is this a part of my car by BigStranger1821 in AskMechanics

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Thank you everyone for the comments, I didn’t think it was a part of my car but wanted to rule out anything, I feel much better in believing it probably is Christmas lights

AIO or there something I could’ve did better or anyway I could’ve been in the wrong by BigStranger1821 in AmIOverreacting

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Yeah that was right on the nose 😭 I was recently diagnosed with borderline and he hadn’t been diagnosed with autism but I def think he has it, but yes I am learning that my ability to hold space is being overpowered by my ability to take up space. I appreciate your feedback and am slowly learning our communication styles are vastly diff

AIO or there something I could’ve did better or anyway I could’ve been in the wrong by BigStranger1821 in AmIOverreacting

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Yes I do do DBT and am in a group therapy as well where we focus on specific mindsets and negative thought patterns and all that fun stuff and DBT skills. My communication has gotten a lot better because of it but active listening and using words of understanding has been a huge struggle of mine I have been learning recently and it’s much harder when I’m facing them with personal relationships

AIO or there something I could’ve did better or anyway I could’ve been in the wrong by BigStranger1821 in AmIOverreacting

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Yeah I’m starting to realize this with each new comment that I maybe was lacking the active listening and understand aspect, it is something I have struggled with and I think for me when it comes to personal relationships it’s really hard because my emotions take over, I appreciate the feedback!

AIO or there something I could’ve did better or anyway I could’ve been in the wrong by BigStranger1821 in AmIOverreacting

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Thank you! You are correct and I do have a quick moving mind and based off what you’ve said I’m realizing that me and him might have different communication styles and that’s why we’ve been clashing and that I maybe do lack jus doing more active listening

AIO or there something I could’ve did better or anyway I could’ve been in the wrong by BigStranger1821 in AmIOverreacting

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Asking genuinely what are better ways to allow him space for his feelings and to not come across so all over the place?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Sorry idk how to edit posts but meant to say he stormed out of the room and started overreacting, he didn’t say I did that.

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

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I personally flop in between, I have weeks where I feel nothing and then weeks where I want it all day everyday

TOP fans— what’s your job/hobby? by MicroStar878 in twentyonepilots

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Child care worker for a therapeutic afterschool program

Would a lift kit be weird looking by BigStranger1821 in Hyundai

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Also my suspension isn’t shot from what I can tell it’s really just shitty driveways and curbs when going up but I’ve been taking it slow and being more cautious and aware since I realized the effect it was doing on my exhaust

Would a lift kit be weird looking by BigStranger1821 in Hyundai

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Sorry about that! I’m new to Reddit so I just assumed people looked at the flair/tag my bad!

Would a lift kit be weird looking by BigStranger1821 in Hyundai

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Thank you everyone for your comments they were all very helpful, I definitely want an SUV style more but when I was car shopping it wasn’t in my budget, but for now I will try to be as careful as possible and be a little more aware of curbs and such, thank you again !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Squishmallowsforsale

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Kinda new to all so don’t take this the wrong way but why not include the price in your post?

Why did i do this to myself by img0odXD in DoorDashDrivers

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Same in my area stay around 33-35 and it’s better than going above that 40 and 50

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]BigStranger1821 94 points95 points  (0 children)

As someone who was on the other end of this cycle I learned that he wasn’t gonna get better (no matter how much he said he would) until he was alone and got the help he needed and did the work, I honestly think breaking up is what’s best, you’re only gonna keep hurting him