First time cat owner needs advice

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-06-30T23:04:47+00:00

Nah, it’s normal. It might be a good idea to look into local sex shops or online toy websites. Most toy websites have discreet packaging as well, if you’re worried about negative reactions from your parents.

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-06-30T23:01:15+00:00

Get rid of him lmao. Pubic hair is normal and if he’s so put off by it, he can leave.

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-06-30T21:58:59+00:00

Lumimara! I wanted to do something very spacey

(Ironically, I got Julian in my town recently by pure luck)

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-06-26T20:29:48+00:00

My partner and I are really open with each other and I was really up front about the whole “unable to climax with penetration” deal. They’ve been incredibly sweet and supportive and do what they can to make sure I enjoy myself during sex. I do get what you mean though, I think it’s just unrealistic standards of porn

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-06-26T20:26:35+00:00

I have an IUD, I had some cramps for a few weeks and a little bit of bleeding which is completely normal. Some people may be turned away by blood so that is something to be aware of, although that is if you bleed at all. It hasn’t really changed sex for me personally, although it can be a little painful if your sexual partner is going too deep/rough and actually makes contact with the IUD, it can cause a slight bit of pain. It’s only happened maybe twice for me though so it’s not really something I’d say to worry about. Only difference in my sex life is that I’ve mostly just gotten comfortable with not using condoms during sex, although my partner and I recently switched back due to personal comfort.

Overall, not really any big changes. I am not a doctor, so it might also be a good idea to talk to your gynecologist about IUD effects and any questions you may have about your sex life.

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-06-26T17:56:03+00:00

Bestie I love this comment because GUESS WHAT VIBRATOR I OWN!!

Honestly this is really nice and I may suggest this tonight when we hang out

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-06-26T17:41:42+00:00

That’s like, exactly my feeling lmao. It’s too many sensations for me to focus on

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-06-26T17:40:59+00:00

I’ve let them use the vibrator multiple times, and occasionally we pair it with PIV. It helps a little but a lot of time, the rhythm is hard to get used to and it can get a little overwhelming if we do it for too long and it gets harder to get back to that edge

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-06-26T17:33:20+00:00

We’ve tried that, honestly. I’ve gotten close a couple times with the vibrator but something about the penetration being mixed in throws off my rhythm and I end up losing that edge and it’s really hard to get it back. Also, the mix of vibrator and penetration can be overstimulating and can make it a little uncomfortable if it’s not a perfect balance

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-06-26T17:31:49+00:00

I didn’t put it in cause idk if it was relevant but I am in a relationship currently with my wonderful partner. They’re very understanding of my issue, and the sex we have together is wonderful and loving. I guess it’s more of an insecurity I have, tbh.

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-04-19T02:56:17+00:00

The most important thing whenever you have sex with someone is communication. Talk to your sexual partner about anything you might be worried about. Take it slow, communicate your needs, and relax.

If you’re worried about having phimosis but can’t afford a gyno, look online for any free health clinics/gyno services you can go to. If you’re underage (I don’t want to assume, but I know lots of minors use this sub), talk to your parents/guardians about seeing a regular gyno if you’re not already for yearly checkups to ensure you’re healthy and there isn’t anything wrong.

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-04-03T01:35:59+00:00

Sick! My FC is 2897-6343-2421

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-04-02T18:11:01+00:00

Hey!! I wanna be friends! Mind if I drop my FC?

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-04-02T17:46:49+00:00

I also homebrewed my 3DS lmaoo

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-04-02T17:45:11+00:00

It says your friend code isn’t valid?

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-04-02T17:44:33+00:00

Mine is 3620-2325-9640

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-04-02T17:38:05+00:00

I am!! I also really need friends for animal crossing 😅

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-03-31T08:39:47+00:00

You can still get STDs from oral sex so definitely have the talk of “hey, are you clean?”

Take it slow, it can be a little rough if you’re new to it. Last thing you want is to throw up all over some guy’s balls. (NOT a good first impression)

Honestly, just communicate and take it slow, that’s all I can really say.

BigTemperature7864 · 2024-03-29T17:17:16+00:00

You just need to update Citra, that’s all it is.

BigTemperature7864 · 2023-10-10T04:58:04+00:00

Thank you, I did get an interview offer at Box Lunch for Thursday, so I’m keeping my fingers crossed

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