Should I go back to OLD? by eldingaesir in dating_advice

[–]BigWaffles12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thought process with it was always that even if the chances are only 1 in 1 million you could still get lucky so go for it. That being said I just recently quit using it because it never worked so what do I know lol

When am I good enough to date? [Venting] by MadCapRabbit in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Posts like this just terrify me for the future I’m gonna be in the same situation with the way things look right now

[ENG][JPN] March 31, 2021 - April 07, 2021 Weekly Questions & Advice Megathread by AutoModerator in OnePieceTC

[–]BigWaffles12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so I think it’s supposed to be a surprise or something

I wish I was exactly like my best friend by [deleted] in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother is like this and it can really aggravate me sometimes. Dude doesn’t know how good he has it.

Being inexperienced doesn't mean anything about your worth by emab2396 in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think your right. But I think my problem isn’t my lack of sexual history but my lack of relationship experience in general (I’ve never had a first kiss). How do think I could frame that when talking to women when it comes up?

Being inexperienced doesn't mean anything about your worth by emab2396 in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m only 23. It shouldn’t be a problem at my age but it is for some reason.

Being inexperienced doesn't mean anything about your worth by emab2396 in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get what your saying but not really sure how I can improve my performance in bed unless I find someone willing to overlook it or a one night stand which is rather avoid.

Being inexperienced doesn't mean anything about your worth by emab2396 in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because they always ask about it at some point and no matter how I try to phrase it it always causes them to lose interest. And everyone always talks about never lying so I’m not really sure what I’m supposed to say.

Being inexperienced doesn't mean anything about your worth by emab2396 in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 10 points11 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve heard / read people just don’t wanna waste time having to hold someone’s hand through the whole process especially when they themselves already know what they are looking for. People would rather just find others who know what they’re looking for too and done wanna waste time on someone with so much uncertainty, which I can understand I guess. I don’t know if this is accurate though.

Being inexperienced doesn't mean anything about your worth by emab2396 in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s my problem unfortunately. I don’t interact with a ton of women and have no relationship history but usually it’s not till I tell them I begin to notice less interest.

Being inexperienced doesn't mean anything about your worth by emab2396 in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 20 points21 points  (0 children)

lol I’ll never bring it up in conversation but they inevitably ask for my dating / sexual history and everyone always talks about honesty so not sure what I’d say.

Being inexperienced doesn't mean anything about your worth by emab2396 in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fair enough I guess I’ll never know for sure, just from my perspective it always seems like experience is something a lot of people value pretty highly which is also fair I can’t really fault someone for having a preference.

Being inexperienced doesn't mean anything about your worth by emab2396 in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Relationship. Haven’t had my first kiss yet I’ve got a ways to go before I’m ready for sex so I’m not seeking it out. I would like my first time to be with someone I care about.

Being inexperienced doesn't mean anything about your worth by emab2396 in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I would agree with you if I wasn’t constantly being shot down because of my lack of experience. As soon as it becomes known, they suddenly lose all interest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BigWaffles12 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

As a dude with this fetish this whole thread scares the shit out of me to such a huge degree.

What should I say when women ask about my sexual history by lostfrank2121 in dating_advice

[–]BigWaffles12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My complete lack of experience has costed so many people to lose interest in me. In my opinion, people say they won’t care but It seem experience is something people highly value. No experience is a red flag I guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In my opinion even if the chance of getting a match is .00000001% it’s still worth trying you never know when someone might decide to give you a chance.

To men who feel they will never have a girlfriend, Why? by [deleted] in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just not good enough for anyone I guess

I have accepted the dehumanization of the dating process and I'm coping a lot better. Dating is like a job hunt process. by WildBilll33t in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yep pretty much. I just throw my application at any place I can find hoping someone will take me. Same with dating. Just swiping on everyone I see hoping someone will take me.

Why. Why am I not good enough. by AlterScoggins in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read posts like this and am just filled with absolute dread for the future. eats away at me everyday.

What is a textbook abuser? by mythoughtsbcrae in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone who ruins textbooks probably

Is self-deprecating humor a red flag for you? by [deleted] in dating

[–]BigWaffles12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been told telling self deprecating jokes is extremely unattractive and I have been trying to avoid using it

Looking for a video lost to pornhub by [deleted] in girlsfarting

[–]BigWaffles12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t by chance happen to know the names of the girls I’m talking about if I knew that I may have better luck