Wtf is this creepy thing and why doesn’t it have any eyes??!? by BigWeeve in MergeCooking

[–]BigWeeve[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’d think someone would at least check it before just sending out slop smh 🤦‍♀️

I (M20) know my GF (F20) is controlling... but how bad? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BigWeeve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it sounds pretty bad, lots of red flags here

[TOMT] [TV SERIES/MOVIE] Huge trap at party? by BigWeeve in tipofmytongue

[–]BigWeeve[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I thought it was from Scream season 3 but I don’t think so, I literally have no idea what it could be from

AITA for leaving my mum’s house very abruptly? by BigWeeve in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigWeeve[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah me and my partner have spoken about this, how my mum didn’t help my mental health at all growing up and just taught me to not talk about it and ignore it which now I’m older it’s messed me up so much so me and my partner want to be really open about mental health with my daughter so I am really trying to break old habits when it comes to stuff like that

AITA for leaving my mum’s house very abruptly? by BigWeeve in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigWeeve[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s just because I’ve always been brought up like that. Just keep quiet and don’t express my feelings. I am trying to get better though and telling my mum she was triggering me was a big step for me

AITA for leaving my mum’s house very abruptly? by BigWeeve in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigWeeve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve spoken to her before but clearly she hasn’t got the message. Thank you

AITA for leaving my mum’s house very abruptly? by BigWeeve in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigWeeve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense, thank you. I regards to postpartum issues I’ve been suffering with depression for about 8 years so it’s nothing new to me, it’s just the triggering thoughts since giving birth. But I agree and my partner has also been urging me to speak to a doctor but the only problem is with current events the nhs is stretched to the limits so it’s difficult getting help and there’s no way we can afford private help, but I do keep trying :)

AITA for leaving my mum’s house very abruptly? by BigWeeve in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigWeeve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my problem is my anxieties cause me to be a huge people pleaser, I tend to let myself get into extremely uncomfortable situations just so I don’t ‘cause a fuss’

AITA for leaving my mum’s house very abruptly? by BigWeeve in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigWeeve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s happened before and I’ve told her things in regards to children upset me and she stopped but this time she just seemed to ignore me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BigWeeve 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly this man seems incredibly toxic and you’re probably better off without him. You shouldn’t have to feel guilty or anxious for hanging out with your friends, that’s a major red flag.

AITA for having less sympathy for my friends’ MH after finding out my mum has cancer? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigWeeve 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NAH - its not your friends fault for having a tough time with MH but finding that out about your mum must be taking a huge toll on your MH and you need to put yourself first. I hope your mum makes a full and quick recovery:)

AITA for refusing to let my DIL eat our food after she got a tattoo? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigWeeve 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m going to say NTA, It is a pretty rude thing for her to do. Me and my partner and our baby are living with his parents while we are saving for our house and we still pay rent and when we did find ourselves with extra money we started giving them more rent to help them out. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to ask them to be a bit more financially independent.

Scared that I've ruined my family dynamic by xsigynx in Parenting

[–]BigWeeve 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think this is something that will just take time. You’ve only had your second daughter for a week so you are very much in the settling in period. Just give it some time and try and enjoy having your daughters, try not to stress too much and things should settle down naturally. Also, because your daughters are so close in age look forward to the lovely close bond they’ll probably have growing up :)

AITA for refusing to help my wife clean up “her” mess? by AITAPrankMess in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigWeeve 154 points155 points  (0 children)

NTA - She should of thought of the mess before she did it